Is your spouse having an affair with someone else??

Ask...or try to get proof. Confront them and ask them what they plan about doing to make this right. If you can't be with a cheater - figure out if you can afford to walk away. If you can... leave him/her.

My spouse is not having an affair. If you have good communication you can tell if someone is messing around. I would talk to my spouse if I ever suspected anything. But then we both agreed many years ago that is either one of us would ever cheat that we would let the other person know. To this day neither of us has cheated -- be telling the other person is the responsible thing to do ( there are too many diseases to mess around with and give to your loved ones). Just try to talk it through.

If its once or twice, forgive him but if it becomes a habit, fire him! i mean completely divorce him.

Hey there I had a Spouse that had an affair with my Ex best friend it caused me to Divorce him!