For Women -- What is your opinion when you receive compliments?

United States
March 22, 2007 3:42pm CST
From studying it well -- Most women don't prefer to be complimented -- To an extent. We see these movies or even in life when a man sees a beautiful woman they tend to leave remarks or compliments such as "Wow you are gorgeous!" "You have beautiful eyes" Reminds me of the movie Hitch when Eva Mendes was approached by a man that offered her a drink and constantly kept complimenting her with his cheesy conversation. I also find it true that for guys that constantly compliment women -- Women tend to find it boring, uninteresting and unattractive. I do believe if a man learns to talk to woman by using the right words by knowing what's in a woman's heart and learns to encourage -- Then matters will do fine. My girlfriend even told me that matters like this is true and another friend of mine she said this is also true that it is a big turn off. As to say beautiful women here it all the time and look for something unpredictable and original. What do you have to say about this?
2 responses
• United States
22 Mar 07
It depends on the circumstances. i do not like it when a guy comes up to me and immediately compliments me because it seems just like a pickup line. But i do like it when a guy compliments me after he gets to know me some. I want a guy to like me for me first and then appreciate my outer beauty
• United States
22 Mar 07
That's exactly what I'm talking about. Great answer!
@kate44 (100)
22 Mar 07
I think all women like compliments and the best ones are probably specific ones like 'you have a lovely smile' as apposed to you are pretty/gorgeous because then we know you realy mean it and its not just another general chat up line, i think if a guy tells you too many compliments in one night then it would probably get a bit boring after a while as he may start to sound a little desperate...:-)