"How do you choose your partners?"

Wealth - will you judge by wealth?
Philippines
March 27, 2007 2:14pm CST
Do you judge them by their physical appearance or simply looks, intelligence, attitude or by what they contain on their pocket? Now tell me, how you chose your partner in present?
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ehdzzie
@ehdzzie (331)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
i want my partner to be presentable...good looking but not much and should have sense of humor so that i can show him with my parents....
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khent_kreuk
@khent_kreuk (214)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
Ah i see, so you're preferring a guy like me huh, joke only. Ahm, well your guidelines for choosing a partner are not much far to what a typical girl may dream. And regarding that, you are setting aside the attitude of the person. As long as he is presentable and good-looking, he is qualifying for your guidelines even he is not that kind, respectful and honest to you, am i right?
peaches20
@peaches20 (147)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
I choose them when I feel a "spark" like some kind of an electricity. Mushy as it may sound, but chemistry is important to me. But somehow we need to be more practical with life. With attraction you'll wind up getting hurt in the process, because being with an attractive person is a headache, so just find someone simple and much more stable.
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khent_kreuk
@khent_kreuk (214)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
Ah I see. Im thinking that you're wise in choosing someone. It's all right to be practical nowadays. Dont just always follow your heart, use your mind too. If you could do this one, you can avoid yourself from getting hurt in the end. Im saying this words to you coz' I really feel sorry everytime I see someone crying because of being stupid. Always remember that using your personal instinct is a must!
kurtbiewald
@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
27 Mar 07
I've given up. If or when somebody choses me, I'm make it seriously worth her trouble. I have finally reached the point at which I don't have a clue how to get a woman, and I'm not gonna try anymore.
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khent_kreuk
@khent_kreuk (214)
• Philippines
27 Mar 07
oh really... cheer up man... just trust yourself...
repzkoopz
@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
i'm very particular with attitude. i want my partner to know how to say "no". i don't want a partner who'd always say "yes" to whatever i say. i want someone who i can have smart conversations. someone who can challenge me mentally and emotionally. c',)
diablouk
@diablouk (598)
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27 Mar 07
I'd have to say looks initially cos how else can you initially judge them? But if all they have is looks without a personality, intelligence etc they dont last long
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khent_kreuk
@khent_kreuk (214)
• Philippines
27 Mar 07
everything starts through our eyes, so look was the first judgmental aspect to be consider... tnx anyway