Is it wrong to fallinlove with your bestfriend?

Philippines
April 13, 2007 8:16am CST
I have a bestfriend she's so beautiful and she's a very caring person,thoughtful. She is the dream girl of every man. That's why accidentally I find myself inlove with her. Is it really okay if I fall inlove with my bestfriend? How do I make my move? Kindly help me... thanks guys.
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@r3v3ng3 (484)
• Romania
14 Apr 07
Only you know the answer to this question ! If you have feelings for her then go ahead it doesn't matter that she is your bestfriend this will help you because you know what she likes and you will have the best chance to be her dream boy .
@erikbench (169)
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
it's not wrong.. if you really love her, then go for it.. goodluck!
@my2luvs (158)
• United States
14 Apr 07
I had a best friend once. He was in love with me. HE told me all the time. I finally thought that he was worth a chance. Well he freaked out that i said ok and I havent seen or spoken to him since. We were friends for 10 years when this happened. So in my opinion you better decide if this friendship is something you dont wanna lose.
@jamie622 (508)
• India
14 Apr 07
It is perfectly fine to fall in love with your best friend . He or she is a human just like anyone else . The fact that he or she is your best frind alredy meand that you to like many things of each other . That makes you all the more probable to be each others gorl friend or boy friend .
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
Talk to her, it'll be easy if you can ask her personally. Take the risk.
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
Most of us fall in love with persons from the opposite gender that has grown close with us, except for family members=O. It is then we realize that that person has the same interests. And that same person acknowledges and complements our lives. I think it is better to check first if she likes you you the same way. Or if you can't hold it back no more. I think you should tell her but if the feeling is not mutual then it would be better to stay away than have your heart slowly broken everytime you see her.
@natalie1981 (1995)
• Singapore
14 Apr 07
No, it's not wrong to fall in love with your best friend, in fact I think it's just normal. If you're best friends, chances are you've spent almost all of your time together and you already know each other inside-out so it's only natural that you fall in love with her. I think it's the sweetest thing when best friends fall in love. To make your move, first you need to see if she's in the same place as you. It's hard to make a move on your best friend specially if she's in not in that place yet because chances are, your friendship would be ruined. But then again, would you rather play it safe as just being her friend and spend all of your life wondering---what if she did feel the same way about you? Talk things out.
@akinad (446)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
well it's normal to feel something for someone who's very thoughtful and caring like your bestfriend..the first thing u should do is make sure that you're really inlove with her and the feelings you have for her now is "more than just friends" thing..if your intentions are all good pure..then you may now tell her how you feel..that you've fallen inlove with her..tell her all the things you liked about her and what makes her special in your life..tell her that you wish that you could be more than just best buddies and hope it wouldn't ruin the friendship at all.. i wish you luck and i hope your bestfriend feels the same towards you.. good day and god bless!
• Malaysia
13 Apr 07
of course not