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Eva James @wolfgirl569 (123505) • Marion, Ohio 12 Oct

I love the way this turned out. The hen and chicks should be rooted in great by next summer. I will then take it to the auction. If it sells good I will stop at some yard sales next year looking for more. That's the only thing I...

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ShannyBananny @shaggin (74339) • United States 26 Sep

There are couples over the years who are what we view as the perfect marriage. Couples that you know will make it through the long haul. I just saw on a Facebook a few days ago a post by the wife of one of those couples who...

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Eva James A friend of mine was like that. They realized they had just drifted apart and developed different interests. They get along great and didn't even have any problems dividing stuff.

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ShannyBananny @shaggin (74339) • United States 26 Sep

There are couples over the years who are what we view as the perfect marriage. Couples that you know will make it through the long haul. I just saw on a Facebook a few days ago a post by the wife of one of those couples who...

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Loretta @jefferson126 It's a fine line for sure. It's hard to figure out. One would think it would work. Maybe it would if it was a first marriage. It was our second.

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ShannyBananny @shaggin (74339) • United States 26 Sep

There are couples over the years who are what we view as the perfect marriage. Couples that you know will make it through the long haul. I just saw on a Facebook a few days ago a post by the wife of one of those couples who...

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Loretta @shaggin When things go wrong, it's hard to recapture the closeness. It's good we got past the "stuff." The judge said she was amazed how quiet and calm we were. After, we had lunch together and my ex said he lost his best friend and cried.

12 Oct

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Go Ask Alice / Admin @GoAskAlice (5857) 5 Oct

This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it. [u]The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other...

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Anna You are welcome, I am sure that many thought it was normal to post to ask about other members.

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Go Ask Alice / Admin @GoAskAlice (5857) 5 Oct

This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it. [u]The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other...

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rebelann1949 I have to agree with you @porwest if not for those who asked where a former member was none of us would have known she was ok and simply no longer wanted to be a part of Mylot. That was years ago.

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Go Ask Alice / Admin @GoAskAlice (5857) 5 Oct

This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it. [u]The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other...

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Anna @rebelann - Many members did the same in the past, it was just to ask to ALL the others if someone knew. Sad not to be able to know.

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Go Ask Alice / Admin @GoAskAlice (5857) 5 Oct

This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it. [u]The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other...

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rebelann1949 I do recall a few years ago that admin posted that no one should make any kind of malicious posts or comments about another member but so far I have not seen any post that was being malicious @porwest all I've ever seen are posts where a member is jokingly...

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Go Ask Alice / Admin @GoAskAlice (5857) 5 Oct

This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it. [u]The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other...

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rebelann1949 I used to simply cast a discussion out about the member to see if someone would comment that they knew something @LadyDuck I won't do that again but how else will we know whats happened to someone we care about?

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Go Ask Alice / Admin @GoAskAlice (5857) 5 Oct

This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it. [u]The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other...

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Jim Bauer I agree. Unless the comment or post is malicious, derogatory, or mean spirited, we should be able to ask about each other. I think it's a silly rule, personally that serves no purpose other than to create a silly rule. This is a community. We become friends...

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Go Ask Alice / Admin @GoAskAlice (5857) 5 Oct

This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it. [u]The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Even I was wondering who might have triggered such a message from the admin. But if it has been among the Top Rated Discussions here, then it must have been so. It's all about mutual respect and respecting boundaries.

12 Oct

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Go Ask Alice / Admin @GoAskAlice (5857) 5 Oct

This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it. [u]The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other...

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Anna @DeborahDiane - I am still concerned about a French member who suddenly stopped posting and commenting. I remember he had a stroke during Covid, I fear he is no more and no one knows how to contact him.

12 Oct

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Go Ask Alice / Admin @GoAskAlice (5857) 5 Oct

This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it. [u]The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other...

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Anna @rebelann Exactly and we do not even know who could have the email or the phone of the one we want to contact. When a member disappeared and I know another had his e-mail I asked, but it's often not the case.

12 Oct

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Go Ask Alice / Admin @GoAskAlice (5857) 5 Oct

This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it. [u]The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other...

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rebelann1949 So many of those I used to enjoy seeing here have gone, either they simply no longer want to be here or else they've passed. I worry about those that I have no information about but I always pray they are well and happy. I'm not on Mylot as much either...

12 Oct

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Go Ask Alice / Admin @GoAskAlice (5857) 5 Oct

This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it. [u]The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other...

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Deborah-Diane @LadyDuck and @rebelann1949 - It is worrisome when people just disappear. I would love to know that other people are OK when they disappear. I know that I have not been as active recently as I used to be, but I do try to add a post every few months and...

12 Oct

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Go Ask Alice / Admin @GoAskAlice (5857) 5 Oct

This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it. [u]The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other...

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Go Ask Alice / Admin "If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it." There should be no discussion of any type about members here in the discussion forum. That is why we have the PM section. I would probably not delete a...

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Go Ask Alice / Admin @GoAskAlice (5857) 5 Oct

This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it. [u]The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other...

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Anna @AmbiePam - There are many we consider friend, hard not to be concerned when we do not see them around.

12 Oct

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Go Ask Alice / Admin @GoAskAlice (5857) 5 Oct

This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it. [u]The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other...

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Anna You have a good point Ann, some myLotters won't allow PMs. In the past, when someone knew that a myLotter passed we were glad to be informed through a post.

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Go Ask Alice / Admin @GoAskAlice (5857) 5 Oct

This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it. [u]The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other...

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rebelann1949 There are some real friendships that have formed on Mylot and we become concerned when that member no longer posts so we ask the Mylot community if anyone knows what happened. Several have passed away and some just won't come back but we wouldn't have known if...

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rakski @rakski (149177) • Philippines 10 Sep

It has been quite a while since I did the laundry. I was supposed to do it yesterday, but when I woke up, it was raining. It is not raining so I decided to do the laundry. I have one load, but we are going out tomorrow so I'd...

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rakski sometimes I do that too

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