Good looks vs. Sense of Humor???

I prefer to have the person who has a great sense of humor. What are the looks for? if he can not make you smile or laugh everyday. Laughing makes one person beautiful. Why would you go for a guy who is good looking but boring righht??

I will take good sense of humor over good looks any day. I am a person who likes to laugh and laugh alot. I like to joke and cut up as much as I can day in and day out... Looks will fade, but a laugh can last a life time.

i know most of the responders would answer the one that doesn't have the looks because of her wit and fun to be with kind of personality. since you mentioned that both are intelligent so then i would choose the one with the looks. firstly, looks are very important because we are endowed with the sense of sight so it has to be fed with beauty secondly, if the lack of humor is the only factor to consider then, if i am also that intelligent , i would look beyond the obvious and i would shift my gears to other topics that would make it one good date. dating does not depend on how your partner would react , it all depends on how you would react and adjust such a situation. here is another fact, psychologically, most people who has a good sense of humor is only good at that and usually has a less degree of communication skills. yes, humor is a best medicine fro everything specially when you socialize and wants to get the atention of the other party and it is also a cover up of something he or she detests, usually intimacy.

Not only me...i hope many will agree with me that "sense of humor" is more important, that is the most attractive aspect of a person, looks, in my view, can nowhere stand near it

The choice is very simple and straight forward. Good looks will vanish with time but good humour will get stronger with the passage of time. I do not want a waxed doll, i want a living being. I want life not a toy.

hi zorlone, I would rather go to the person who can brighten my day, and that is the person who has the sense of humor.A handsome face is just good when he is younger but when he grows old, that handsome face will fades. I can say that I cannot stay long hours with a handsome man,yet doesn't know how to entertain. The time will just be boring. Unlike in a man with a sense of humor, which can stay that way even as he grows older. Your post reminds me of the two person who courts me. The one is handsome and intelligent, but the only problem is that he is so boring to talk with. He will try to give jokes but he is the only one who can laugh at it . The rest of my female friends have same impression also regarding on that guy. Honestly, I am older than him but maybe because of his serious personality, he seems to be older than me And the other one who is my bf now is not that handsome but he is intelligent and has a sense of humor. He knows how to make me smile and laugh whenever I feel down and worried.He is intelligent not only in academics but also on how to deal with me when I am upset and down.I do not have any regrets of choosing him rather than the handsome guy.It is because with him, no problems can be impossible to solve and with him, there are no boring moments.

If they are both qual in all respects, other than their looks and sense of humout it might not be so easy. However for me it would be the ones with a sense of humour of course, simply because over time looks can fade but a sense of humou generally lasts a lifetime. Who wants to sit at the breakfast table looking at some who might have good looks but cannot see the humour in the cartoons in the daiy newspaper. Often there are times when a domestic situation can be tense, and a sense of humour can restore the balance but seldom can good looks do the same.

ill take the less atractive one with a sense of humor i dont like women who i have to entertain all night jsut to make her laugh and i cant get any laughter in return.thats too much of me putting engery into sumthing that im not going to get back.

Well young man, you'ge to to know this fact. Looks are deceiving! The devil assumes beautiful forms...but that's taking it overboard. Looks are superficial, they're not "her" or "you." What's important is what she is inside, her character, and humor denotes a person who looks at life positively. I know you got my point, because you're smart enough. Got to sleep now,. it's 5:30 am..lol...have a blessed day.

hi zorlone, i choose sense of humor means second one.

have to go with your heart. there is a spectrum of beauty for us all. we all don't see beauty the same. same goes with sense of humor. some people prefer dabney coleman over richard pryor. beauty is in you eyes. i see it every different from some of my friends and they all want are models or an extension of what they want people to see as a reflection of them through who they date or . trophies! its all on you, just know you can choose but its better to have one at a time to have equal time with them and not break hearts. also maybe she does look great but needs that extra attention to detail at the salon. some women look great but need to know how to make themselves up. its all up in the air when it comes to circumstance sometimes.

I would definetly choose the one with the great sense of humor. Looks change and even someone who wasnt totally blessed with great looks has room for improvement such as a change in hairstyle or wardrobe but personalities wont change and any guy that can make me laugh will always recieve another date with me.

i would say that the first one you described is no brainer...since for you to have good sense of humor you must be intelligent right? so maybe that person is just beautiful and that's it...if youre the type of person who shows off, maybe the first person is your thing...but for me its too shallow....one must be intelligent for it to be a lasting one...beauty fades...but all that is in your brain, is lasting....

Why choose? I would date both and if it got serious with either of them, that would be the person I would choose. In your scenerio...I am looking for something serious the person with the sense of humor. If I am not, the hot one because anything else doesn't matter.

Hi , if i was in your place, i would choose the one with the best sense of humor !!But it depends on you. According to me , good looks doesn't matter to much , whats the importance of having a good looking girlfriend but she is cheating you behind ?. The sense of humor that matters, the way he/she talks and responds , its all in the mind of the person. Lets say if you get married, you'll be living with that person, then the sense of humor is more important because then the look will not matter , coz the look will stay the same but the sense of humor varies.NB: A person has never chosen to be in a good looking body, it the nature's choice , so decide well before taking any steps as good looking people also have good sense of humor...Take care...meven

Hi Zorlone, good looks fade with time - people grow old, fat, whatever! And to be stuck with someone good-looking with no sense of humor, is like having a poster/pin-up on my wall - boring! I would prefer someone who is interesting, who can make me laugh! Like you said, no dull moment! Maybe the longer you look at him, the better he looks!

I'd go for someone who is funny.. what would i do with someone who has impressive looks, perfect body but no sense of humor? i need a partner who can make me laugh at his corniest jokes.. actually, i don't need one because i've already found my perfect match.. i'm blessed to have the complete package!

i prefer the one with sense of humor. this will not make any dull moment. i dont care if he does not have the good looks for as long as he is presentable and clean. i am not looking at the outside of a person i am looking at his heart. if he is a person of values and optimism in life. happy valentines too be blessed

Well, I say go fot the sense of humour. If someone can make you laugh, you enjoy being around them and appreciate them for who they are then what elso could you possibly ask for? Who cares about good looks, who cares if they look good on any angle? I personally think that it's what's inside a person that truly makes you fall in love with them. Most successful relationships last forever because the pair are able to communicate, communication is just as important as trust.

Relationships break nowadays because we focus on things that fade away or depreciate. Good looks wiil fade away on the long run. But who you rarelly fades. So go for good sence of humor. Beauty is a thing of the mind. Think she is beautiful and you'll be surprise how beautiful she is.