ashnigam

@ashnigam (96)

India • Age 54

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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My mother is in the Hospital...now

Odamashin @Odamashin (434) • Philippines 17 Aug 08

I really feel sad because last night my mother was brought to the hospital..the doctor found out that there are crystals in a tube/tract of her urine..but the good thing is...the doctor said that there is no need for her to...

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ashnigam Don't worry. She will be fine sooner than you expect. It is a matter of only a few days and she will be back home with you. As the doctor also says that no surgery is required, it means she is in no danger. We all are praying for her speedy recovery. Take...

17 Aug 08

What I own?

sanzi1201 @sanzi1201 (644) • China 17 Aug 08

I want to have a home of myself,but I have not. I want to have a boyfriend,but he left me. I want to have a healthy body,but I always sicken. What I own? I find that I have nothingexcept myself. I am a complete poorer.

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ashnigam Hi Sanzil, Why do you feel so disheartend with such small things? A house and a boy friend are all material things. One can have such things at any point of time in life. You should be a fighter not a looser. As far as your poor health is concerned, I would...

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Can any of the 3 Indian boxers win a medal in Olympics?

Vaisakh @gvaisakh (421) • India 17 Aug 08

What I think is all the three Indian boxers left will win their next bouts and advance to the semifinal...... My predictions are: 1)Akhil Kumar will win the gold...... He will be high on confidence after beating three time world...

boxing

bronze

olympics

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ashnigam Whatever medals they win, it will be good for Indian sports. I feel Akhil and Vijender can win Gold for us. Let us keep our fingers crossed and pray for these three boxers.

17 Aug 08

Marriage..

NrgDfenZ @NrgDfenZ (1810) • Belgium 17 Aug 08

Hi all What do you think of marriage ? Do you want to get married in your life ? And do you think you need to be married to have kids ? Ty

kids

marriage

married

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ashnigam I am married and enjoying the life with my wife and daughter. I consider marriage to be a wonderful experience which everyone must have in his/her life. In our Indian society we feel that it is essential to get married to have kids. It is a social tabboo to...

17 Aug 08

cell phone is harm for your health?

victorhan @victorhan (54) • China 17 Aug 08

I heard of some news that said the cell phone could harm our brain and health. How you feel this happens? In your daily life, it's true or not? In theory, I think it's true that cell phone has some "radiation" could be not good...

cell phone life

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ashnigam I have also heard that too much usage of cell phones can create problems for humans. Like typing text messages/SMS can harm your fingers. Similarly the rays emitted from such phones can harm the brain and ears too. So, one has to use such devices with care and...

17 Aug 08

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Is society going down the drain?

giksy21 @giksy21 (89) 11 Aug 08

When i was young, i played games and had fun. Todays youth drink, smoke and do things i didn't even know about at that age. Also has come an age of violence, the likes of which we have never seen before. What can be done to save...

question

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ashnigam I don't think that the society is going down the drain. I will take it as a change brought in by the cultural mix, technology and awareness about many things at a younger age. You are right that violence in society is on a rising side and we seriously need to...

11 Aug 08

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can we control anything

ranji2008 @ranji2008 (53) • India 11 Aug 08

most of us try to control things and ultimately try to have a control on our destiny. By way of this exercise, we sometimes get tense and often frustrated.However when we look back, we find that there are so few things we can...

balance

control

moderation

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ashnigam I do agree with you that one can not control everything. There are certain situations in life where you want to do something differently but they don't materialize and then you feel helpless and dejected. Then the feeling of let the life take its own course...

11 Aug 08

when we grow up ,we leave

yingui @yingui (74) • China 11 Aug 08

My summer vocation is only 20 days left .It's my last summer holiday.The next year i will spend the whole summer holiday in hospital .Forget to tell that i'm a medicial student .I will not have the chance to come home .I'm going...

grow up

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ashnigam Hello Yingui, It happens with almost everyone. One day one has to face the world independently and has to learn to survive alone. Next year will be a good grooming ground for you to learn a lots of things. Definitely your family members will be there to help...

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My Dad Is Having Cataract Surgery Tommorrow

maddysmommy @maddysmommy (16230) • United States 11 Aug 08

About one hour ago (i.e. 4.05 am) I received a text message from my mom in New Zealand, telling me Dad was going in for surgery tommorrow. Surgery??? WTH I got on the phone and called them. Apparently Dad can't...

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ashnigam Hi Maddysmommy, Don't worry mate, just be calm and cool. Believe me, cataract surgery is not a big deal these days. You are right when you say that you feel scary about any kind of surgery but it is a minor one any might be over within 45 minutes or so. I...

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Do you still remember you dream in childhood?

izhuce13 @izhuce13 (158) • China 9 Aug 08

Every of us have a dream when we are young.but with the age increase,we forget our dreams.so i ask you, my frieds?what is you dream when you are a child?do you still remember it? and what about you dream now?Thsnks(3Q)

childhood dream

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ashnigam Since my childhood I had a dream of having a Chevrolet car and to take my parents on a drive in it. The other childhood dream was to wear a Rado scratch proof wrist watch. As of now both the dreams have not turned into reality. I have another small car but not...

9 Aug 08

Strawberry / Butter Scotch I like The Most In Ice Cream !!!

Ganesh44 @Ganesh44 (5547) • India 9 Aug 08

Dear friends do you know ....I love icecreams very much....especially strawberry and butter scotch they r simply great.... Even Mango shake with icecream is a good idea.... I like icecream with coke also Do u like...

do u like

icecream

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ashnigam I too like ice creams like you. I can have one any time during the day. My favourite ice creams are Chocolate, Fruit & Nuts and Butter Scotch. I like ice cream shakes also.

9 Aug 08

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found a way to earn pounds without the extra effort

kayedanda @kayedanda (1850) • Philippines 9 Aug 08

i have recently subscribed to this search provider which allows me to do what I normally do - that is, surf the net at hours on end - and pay me for it. it's free to sign up, for those who worry about hidden charges. they do not...

money

search provider

sideline

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ashnigam Hi Kayedanda, Good to know about the things you are talking. I would appreciate if you could share the link of the said portal with me. Also please tell me how to add you as a friend. I am not aware of this adding as a friend thing. Awaiting your response.

9 Aug 08

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Will you do some sports everyday ?

lyy284891086 @lyy284891086 (623) • China 9 Aug 08

do some sports is good for your heallthy ,and will you do that everyday ?and woh much time will you spend on it ? And do you think it good for your heallthy

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ashnigam I play some indoor games like Carrom and Chess everyday with my daughter. It keeps both of us busy and helps us to do some brain storming when we play chess. We also play Badminton and Table Tennis at least thrice a week.

9 Aug 08

I am losing a neighbor

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 9 Aug 08

Leopold whom I am very close too and the only person I have to help me with things as I am disabled, told me tonight that he is moving at the end of the month. I know he was having problems with the landlord, who wouldn't fix his...

good neighbors and friends

moving

plumbing

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ashnigam Hi Winterose, Sad to know that one of your best friend and help is moving away. But as you said that he is not that far away either, so it means he is within reach and can be there with you in the hour of need. So be in constant touch with him through...

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The Lake city

sasheikh @sasheikh (69) • India 9 Aug 08

My city ,srinagar Is known as the lake city of Kashmir and the famous Dal Lake is its glory Have you ever been here to see the Dal lake If yes how did you feel .and if not what are your comments.

dal lake

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ashnigam Hi Sasheikh, Good to know that you are from Srinagar. I have thought many a times to visit Srinagar but could not materialize due to one reason or the other. Most importantly because of the news that we get in Delhi about the disturbances in Srinagar and the...

9 Aug 08

My friend felt bad......

sivanj @sivanj (1263) • India 8 Aug 08

I had an occasion recently and i was not able to attend my friend's sister's marriage because of some reason. I felt bad that i didn't call him and wish also. Then afterwards on one day i met him and told that i could not attend...

amrriage

friend

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ashnigam First of all, please don't feel so sad about the issue if you had a genuine reason not to attend the marriage function and if your conscious was clear. On the other hand it shows that you have a great friendship with your friend. Otherwise he would not have...

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Do you sometimes enjoy being alone or by yourself?

CharRay7 @CharRay7 (1549) • United States 4 Aug 08

Hi, I live with my hubby (and my five dogs). He does work during the week but he's here whenever he's not at work. You have to understand, I do love him dearly, but sometimes I just like being alone. He went up north to his...

alone

by yourself

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ashnigam I always like being alone. It does not mean that I don't like company of other people or I am a loner. But I enjoy being with myself. It gives me time and opportunity to think and plan about the things I wish/have to do. I always prefer to be quiet and silent...

8 Aug 08

Co-education is good or bad. What type of schooling you recommend?

sivanj @sivanj (1263) • India 8 Aug 08

I have had this confusion in mind since my schooling. Whenever i hear a discussion in TV or friends arguing i listen and get even more confused. I have been in a boys school and dis my college in co-education. So i have a...

college

friends

school

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ashnigam I share your thought that co-ed schools and colleges allow students to learn about the other gender. I have had the chance of studying in both co-ed and boys only school. My college for graduation and post-graduation was co-ed. I always feel that co-ed system...

8 Aug 08

I am back on Mylot ..

Ptrikha_2 @ptrikha_2 (47375) • India 8 Aug 08

Hi All Fellow Mylotters, I am back on Mylot after some time. My Username was ptrikha1 and many of you might recognize or recall me . I faced a peculiar problem and had not been able to access my account since Mid...

back to mylot

delhi india

mylot 01

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ashnigam Hello PTRIKHA, Welcome back to the amazing world of Mylot. I hope you are over with whatever problem you had and wish you will never have any other problems in your life. Enjoy your reincarnation on the web. All the best to you.

8 Aug 08

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