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babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

i've been a single mom for several years. i still gave my ex the right to see my son even if he seldom has the time to do so. now i'm happily married and my husband has always been there for my son, bringing him to school, bonding...

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babysunget i've done that. i've watched him wait outside the door for approximately 30 minutes. i told him i'd call his dad to get him, but of cors his dad said he can't, he was too busy hanging out. my son got tired of waiting, he knocked at the door and said he'd...

25 Jun 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

i've been a single mom for several years. i still gave my ex the right to see my son even if he seldom has the time to do so. now i'm happily married and my husband has always been there for my son, bringing him to school, bonding...

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babysunget couple of years ago, yeah, he's been there. but his dad lets him watch tv all day or play computer games and no study time. he can do whatever he wants when he's with his dad and my ex doesn't care if it's gonna be good for my son or not. that is why my son...

25 Jun 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

i've been a single mom for several years. i still gave my ex the right to see my son even if he seldom has the time to do so. now i'm happily married and my husband has always been there for my son, bringing him to school, bonding...

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babysunget i've never said anything bad about his father. i keep telling him he's busy even if he's not working. he's just hanging around with friends drinking. last year, he came to my son's school and brought him home, he was drunk. the smell of alcohol was terrible.

25 Jun 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

i've been a single mom for several years. i still gave my ex the right to see my son even if he seldom has the time to do so. now i'm happily married and my husband has always been there for my son, bringing him to school, bonding...

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babysunget i live in the Philippines, no rules for giving rights or whatsoever specially when you're not married. i did not want him to hate his dad or think he's not there for him that is why i have asked him to spend time with his son which he hasn't done in years now....

25 Jun 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

i've been a single mom for several years. i still gave my ex the right to see my son even if he seldom has the time to do so. now i'm happily married and my husband has always been there for my son, bringing him to school, bonding...

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babysunget yes my husband is a great guy. he spends time with my son the way real fathers do. he brings him to school every morning, gives him food for lunch and takes him home. we talk to him like a grown up every time he's in trouble, sometimes it works, sometimes it...

25 Jun 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

i've been a single mom for several years. i still gave my ex the right to see my son even if he seldom has the time to do so. now i'm happily married and my husband has always been there for my son, bringing him to school, bonding...

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babysunget he can do anything with his dad. he doesn't discipline him that's why he likes staying with him. a couple of years ago, i let him sleepover with his dad and every time he comes home, he's got this attitude. i won't let him grow up to be a bad kid so i have to...

25 Jun 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

i've been a single mom for several years. i still gave my ex the right to see my son even if he seldom has the time to do so. now i'm happily married and my husband has always been there for my son, bringing him to school, bonding...

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babysunget yeah reverse psychology works. i can see the look in his eyes every time i say GO. he looks at me waiting for me to give in, but hell no.. i know when he grows up, he'd finally realize it's not worth staying with his dad anyway.

25 Jun 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

i've been a single mom for several years. i still gave my ex the right to see my son even if he seldom has the time to do so. now i'm happily married and my husband has always been there for my son, bringing him to school, bonding...

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babysunget yes they really are. we're doing our very best to show him we care and we love him but we have to discipline him as well, he just doesn't like the idea of getting punished for being unruly sometimes.

25 Jun 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

i've been a single mom for several years. i still gave my ex the right to see my son even if he seldom has the time to do so. now i'm happily married and my husband has always been there for my son, bringing him to school, bonding...

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babysunget I act as if it's really ok for him to leave. i've thought of really letting him go only if his dad would take care of him. but it hurts like hell every time he says he'll leave.

25 Jun 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

i've been a single mom for several years. i still gave my ex the right to see my son even if he seldom has the time to do so. now i'm happily married and my husband has always been there for my son, bringing him to school, bonding...

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babysunget everytime i tell him to pack his things, he'd really do it. good thing his dad never came to get him. coz it will really drive me crazy.

25 Jun 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

i've been a single mom for several years. i still gave my ex the right to see my son even if he seldom has the time to do so. now i'm happily married and my husband has always been there for my son, bringing him to school, bonding...

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babysunget yeah, it tears me up as well. First time it happened i really cried. i think he was only 4 or 5. i told him to get his stuff and he did, he stayed outside waiting for his dad who never came. (good thing) I have informed him about the situation and he talked...

25 Jun 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

i've been a single mom for several years. i still gave my ex the right to see my son even if he seldom has the time to do so. now i'm happily married and my husband has always been there for my son, bringing him to school, bonding...

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babysunget i just tell him to call his dad so he could come and get him. but every time he calls, his dad would always say no. i've tried talking to my son about it with my husband, and he would say sorry and says he will stay. but every time he gets in trouble, he...

24 Jun 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

i've been a single mom for several years. i still gave my ex the right to see my son even if he seldom has the time to do so. now i'm happily married and my husband has always been there for my son, bringing him to school, bonding...

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babysunget yes that's what i thought. if i show him i'm afraid of letting him go to his dad, the more he'll threaten in leaving. Thank you very much for your response.

24 Jun 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 29 Feb 08

we have decided to have a big celebration this coming April for our loving mom. It's not her birthday though, we just want to thank her for being the best mom. she's a stroke survivor, stayed in the ICU for several weeks and we...

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babysunget oh wow, like a compilation of letters and drawings of her grandkids.. my mom will surely be like so emotional on this part. she loves her grandchildren so much. Thank you for your suggestion!

1 Mar 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 29 Feb 08

we have decided to have a big celebration this coming April for our loving mom. It's not her birthday though, we just want to thank her for being the best mom. she's a stroke survivor, stayed in the ICU for several weeks and we...

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babysunget Thank you for your suggestion. My mom loves to read as well, this idea is perfect for her. I'm so excited to do all these! Thank you guys

1 Mar 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 29 Feb 08

we have decided to have a big celebration this coming April for our loving mom. It's not her birthday though, we just want to thank her for being the best mom. she's a stroke survivor, stayed in the ICU for several weeks and we...

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babysunget Oh a quilt of all the memories, wow, great idea. i still have time to look for someone who supplies that and let me check the iron paper you're talking about as well.. i don't remember the movie i've watched but yeah, i remember a mom gave her daughter a...

1 Mar 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 29 Feb 08

hi guys, I'm 27 today and tomorrow is my youngest daughter's first birthday! I'm afraid of getting old, honestly. LOL But I thank God for everything He has done in my life. I can say, He's been blessing me for 27 years now. To...

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babysunget Thank you so much for your positive insight. There are lots of things to look forward to and so many things in store for me and my family. We should be thankful for the added years, it means we still have time to do things that we want to do and live our...

1 Mar 08

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 29 Feb 08

hi guys, I'm 27 today and tomorrow is my youngest daughter's first birthday! I'm afraid of getting old, honestly. LOL But I thank God for everything He has done in my life. I can say, He's been blessing me for 27 years now. To...

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babysunget Thank you nanayangel.. yeah, that's how it is i guess. hehehe i got 3 kids and they get so pasaway most of the time. but they are so lovable at the same time. Thanks for the response!

29 Feb 08

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