dbabcook

@dbabcook (388)

United States • Age 57

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Feeling used & taken advantage of!

dbabcook @dbabcook (388) • United States 24 Aug 09

How many of you have a neighbor or neighbors that the only time they seem to really know you is when they want or need something? I have a neighbor who is this way. The only time she seems to realize that you even exist is when...

taken advantage of

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dbabcook Yes I completely agree with you on that one as well. It is a lot more disearning when it is coming from someone that is important to you. We get upset when it is people outside of our existing home but even more hurt is endured when it is from someone within...

19 Sep 09

Feeling used & taken advantage of!

dbabcook @dbabcook (388) • United States 24 Aug 09

How many of you have a neighbor or neighbors that the only time they seem to really know you is when they want or need something? I have a neighbor who is this way. The only time she seems to realize that you even exist is when...

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dbabcook Thank you for your response. I too am going through this learning experience, unfortunately I am learning the hard way. Have a great day.

19 Sep 09

Feeling used & taken advantage of!

dbabcook @dbabcook (388) • United States 24 Aug 09

How many of you have a neighbor or neighbors that the only time they seem to really know you is when they want or need something? I have a neighbor who is this way. The only time she seems to realize that you even exist is when...

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dbabcook Isn't it a shame that there are so many people like that out there. It just makes you ask yourself "Why Bother?" It is very annoying to be the one to always go out of your way to help people just to find out that you were used in order for them to reap the...

19 Sep 09

Is it wrong for me to be frustrated with my boyfriend?

dbabcook @dbabcook (388) • United States 12 Sep 09

My boyfriend does pay most of the bills in our home but doesn't take much more responsibility. Let me explain....I lost my job 1-1/2 years ago and we had begun living together as it was cheaper for us both. We each have 1 child...

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dbabcook Thank you for your response and I will have to sit down and think about how to word it all as I am not setting out to hurt him or anyone else but know that I have to be straightforward. He tends to take the things I say in the wrong perspective or shall I say,...

13 Sep 09

Habitual Liars - how do you deal with them?

dbabcook @dbabcook (388) • United States 5 Sep 09

We are dealing with a 13 year old boy who is a habitual liar. He is so obvious in his lies and doesn't even care. You can catch him red handed doing something wrong such as stealing and he will sit right there and lie to you...

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dbabcook Well, his father and I have always tried to make conversation with him to get him to open up and he used to unfortunately because of his repeated lying it is and always has been difficult to truly determine when or if he is telling the truth. We have done a...

9 Sep 09