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devinitly @devinitly (93) • United States 22 Feb 07

ok, i allow my kids to voice their opinions to a certain degree. if they are in trouble i allow them to tell me their side so as I can make a good judgment on what went wrong and punishment ect.. my father never let me talk and...

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silvermoonmyst As teenagers they should be able to speak their minds and have an adult listen and treat them with respect. I think your doing allright, But you cant change how someone else parents the children. You can try talking to him and asking him to be a little less...

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devinitly @devinitly (93) • United States 22 Feb 07

ok, i allow my kids to voice their opinions to a certain degree. if they are in trouble i allow them to tell me their side so as I can make a good judgment on what went wrong and punishment ect.. my father never let me talk and...

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globell45 Most kids will try to pit the mother and father against each other. I have 2 girls who know how to play the game well. They come to talk to me ( I am the calm one), then go talk to dad. Depending on what they want to hear, it can result in severe fireworks....

23 Feb 07

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devinitly @devinitly (93) • United States 22 Feb 07

ok, i allow my kids to voice their opinions to a certain degree. if they are in trouble i allow them to tell me their side so as I can make a good judgment on what went wrong and punishment ect.. my father never let me talk and...

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Only1Andrea I agree with letting children voice their opinions to a certain degree as well. I mean you may go a bit further than I do, but I get your point and why you do what you do. Nevertheless, your ex is quite a different parent. The best thing I could suggest is...

23 Feb 07

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devinitly @devinitly (93) • United States 22 Feb 07

ok, i allow my kids to voice their opinions to a certain degree. if they are in trouble i allow them to tell me their side so as I can make a good judgment on what went wrong and punishment ect.. my father never let me talk and...

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coolsid2007 I think i agree to you.. though i am not sure how liberal are you with them... i have always believed liberty is something that can be easily misused be it adult or a kid... I would like to give my kids a liberty of speech but with manners and also with a...

23 Feb 07

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devinitly @devinitly (93) • United States 22 Feb 07

how many of us out there have secrets about ourselves that we would never share with a single soul? I have many and will die with them. No matter how much I loved a person, I'd never tell them these secrets. Its almost like a part...

secrets

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coolsid2007 I am sure everyone has some... i have some too... i dont think i would or could share it to anyone on this earth in a conscious state of mind ... I do believe in having a privacy and giving a privacy and freedom ... so i would really not like to share some...

23 Feb 07

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devinitly @devinitly (93) • United States 22 Feb 07

if you were invisible, where would you go and what would you do? would you rob a bank, sneak up on someone? get any revenge?

i cant see you

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bonbon50 I guess I do to some extent. It would be more out of curiosity. They got married young and just celebrated their 30th anniversary and I just wonder how the relationship has weathered for them.

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devinitly @devinitly (93) • United States 22 Feb 07

if you were invisible, where would you go and what would you do? would you rob a bank, sneak up on someone? get any revenge?

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chippy49 Wow, there is so much I can get even begin to think.....I would torment my husbands ex for the way that we are being treated. I would sneak into a couple amusment parks and ride the rides. Keep an eye on my hubby to make sure he is not being unfaithful..the...

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devinitly @devinitly (93) • United States 22 Feb 07

if you were invisible, where would you go and what would you do? would you rob a bank, sneak up on someone? get any revenge?

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weemam I would go into some old peoples homes and check if they were being treated properly , I have heard so many bad reports about this lately , I would love to stop all of the bad things that are happening in old peoples homes xx

23 Feb 07

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