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fliffy555 @fliffy555 (1044) 18 Apr 08

my partner cheated on me 2 days before christmas 2007 and now i never feel right around him, i don't want to be touched by him and i've become really picky about things i never was before, does anyone have any advise for me?...

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fliffy555 thank you, you have basically said exactly what i feel, except the leaving part it is so much harder than it seems

18 Jul 08

fliffy555 @fliffy555 (1044) 18 Apr 08

my partner cheated on me 2 days before christmas 2007 and now i never feel right around him, i don't want to be touched by him and i've become really picky about things i never was before, does anyone have any advise for me?...

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fliffy555 i do still love him and i suppose i have forgiven him but i cant trust him anymore, i do want to be with him till the end of time but everytime i see him even talking to another girl i just end up in tears, she was a friend and she stabbed me in the back and i...

18 Jul 08

fliffy555 @fliffy555 (1044) 18 Apr 08

my partner cheated on me 2 days before christmas 2007 and now i never feel right around him, i don't want to be touched by him and i've become really picky about things i never was before, does anyone have any advise for me?...

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fliffy555 No we are not married although we might as well be. We have been living together for 3 and a half years. Everyone calls me his wife although it just isnt down on paper. I have tried the break thing but he wouldnt let me leave for more than 12 hours without...

18 Jul 08

fliffy555 @fliffy555 (1044) 18 Apr 08

my partner cheated on me 2 days before christmas 2007 and now i never feel right around him, i don't want to be touched by him and i've become really picky about things i never was before, does anyone have any advise for me?...

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fliffy555 How will i know if he is committed to not doing it again or if he becomes addicted to it ? It took the girl to tell me this time. And there have been times when he acts really strange around me and I find out he is with ex girlfriends in the bar or something....

18 Jul 08

fliffy555 @fliffy555 (1044) 18 Apr 08

my partner cheated on me 2 days before christmas 2007 and now i never feel right around him, i don't want to be touched by him and i've become really picky about things i never was before, does anyone have any advise for me?...

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6 people

fliffy555 Thank you for your reply its great to have people i can turn to, i need people who don't know me fella at least and i don't know anyone now that don't know him too

25 Apr 08

fliffy555 @fliffy555 (1044) 12 Nov 07

When you have a problem or a worry who do you turn to? Your partner? Your family? Your friends? Why? I turn to people I hardly know, like friends i make on here, people who don't really know me but have offered a supporting hand...

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fliffy555 I know what you mean... i tend to post on bebo or facebook or myspace... usually blogs, helps me feel better to get it out even if i'm not actually telling a single person...x

26 Nov 07

fliffy555 @fliffy555 (1044) 12 Nov 07

When you have a problem or a worry who do you turn to? Your partner? Your family? Your friends? Why? I turn to people I hardly know, like friends i make on here, people who don't really know me but have offered a supporting hand...

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fliffy555 Hey sweet, yeah has been a long time, i haven't been able to get online for ages! Yeah i'm good ta what about you?! Hope you are well! I know what you mean about turning to people you don't see every day, that was my thoughts when i started this discussion......

26 Nov 07

fliffy555 @fliffy555 (1044) 12 Nov 07

When you have a problem or a worry who do you turn to? Your partner? Your family? Your friends? Why? I turn to people I hardly know, like friends i make on here, people who don't really know me but have offered a supporting hand...

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fliffy555 thanks for your response! its great when people have someone to turn to, happy posting grandpa bob :)

26 Nov 07

fliffy555 @fliffy555 (1044) 1 Oct 07

hey guys i havent been on here for like 5 months is anyone i used to talk to still here? missed you all if you are and i can finally log back in a chat with you guys! woo! what been going on with you all? Fliffy x

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fliffy555 I know exactly what ya mean.. i used to leave for about a month every few months just to have something to talk about when i came back... thanks for your response, nice to see ya still here :)

26 Nov 07

fliffy555 @fliffy555 (1044) 29 Jan 07

ok right i know payposter is a scam and all that but i just logged on cuz i was told that i had an email about 6 days ago from someone and thought i'd go through and see how well the forums are going and ALL the topics have...

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fliffy555 sorry i didnt reply before, i don't think mylot will disappear, if it does i will be devastated as i have some amazing friends on here, i agree i hope it is eternal too! :)

12 Nov 07

fliffy555 @fliffy555 (1044) 12 Nov 07

When you have a problem or a worry who do you turn to? Your partner? Your family? Your friends? Why? I turn to people I hardly know, like friends i make on here, people who don't really know me but have offered a supporting hand...

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fliffy555 Lovely answer! I too turn to God sometimes, but i feel someone responding helps me more in some situations, times i just want to get things off my chest i sit and i talk to him, he is the listener i wish my fella was :)

12 Nov 07

heartuvgold @heartuvgold (493) • United States 12 Nov 07

Do you add friends just because they requested, or do you go profile hopping and add as many people as you can thinking the more friends that you have the more you'll get paid? Or do you add people that you want to send something...

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fliffy555 i don't really get round to profile comments but i do check people's profiles out, i stay in touch with a lot of people through email and instant messenger, i even have quite a few friends from mylot on my email and instant messenger address book, the ones i...

12 Nov 07

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fliffy555 @fliffy555 (1044) 12 Nov 07

When you have a problem or a worry who do you turn to? Your partner? Your family? Your friends? Why? I turn to people I hardly know, like friends i make on here, people who don't really know me but have offered a supporting hand...

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fliffy555 I'm sorry to hear that your family have been harmful towards you, its good to see that you have the ability to open up to some people, online friends are very comforting, i didn't mean that all my online friends don't know me but a few of them don't know me...

12 Nov 07

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fliffy555 @fliffy555 (1044) 5 Jan 07

if your partner kept in contact with an ex girlfriend or boyfriend would you have a problem with it? I know i do cuz I know they have had feelings for them before me and always worry they want them back because they were in their...

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fliffy555 that's cool, you're right it is a real proof of love :)

12 Nov 07

fliffy555 @fliffy555 (1044) 5 Jan 07

if your partner kept in contact with an ex girlfriend or boyfriend would you have a problem with it? I know i do cuz I know they have had feelings for them before me and always worry they want them back because they were in their...

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fliffy555 i know how you feel and what you mean pinklilly im exactly the same i keep in contact with my ex but it took us nearly 2 years after breaking up to get back in contact as he cheated on me, i just need friends at the moment and he was my best friend before we...

8 Nov 07

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