hgaldes

@hgaldes (24)

United States • Age 50

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How do you deal when you and your husband have such huge parenting differences?

hgaldes @hgaldes (24) • United States 16 Mar 07

Oh HELP! What do you wives do out there when your hubby is just so different then you???? I do all that I can to keep the peace but he is just so much harder on the kids then I am. He works non-stop so I am with them 95% of the...

parenting differences

parenting issues

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hgaldes We have on a number occasions talked. We seem to come to an agreement that last for a bit of time then whammo it is like there was never such a conversation! Ahh the joys! It is super tough at time yes, but I would not trade it in.... He is a great man - just...

18 Mar 07

How does what we say affect our children

hgaldes @hgaldes (24) • United States 17 Mar 07

Hi there - My husband and I differ on this one. I am a firm believer that we must always be very careful of what we say to our children and how we say it. I feel that the things we say can affect them all the way into adulthood....

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hgaldes Yes - That is where I was going with this. I try to tell my husband these things and he just does not buy into it! I think that is why I overcompensate with the niceness with the kids.....

17 Mar 07

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How does what we say affect our children

hgaldes @hgaldes (24) • United States 17 Mar 07

Hi there - My husband and I differ on this one. I am a firm believer that we must always be very careful of what we say to our children and how we say it. I feel that the things we say can affect them all the way into adulthood....

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hgaldes I am with you 100% on telling them the truths in life. I was more talking about when we say things like "you are such a baby", "why do you whine all the time", "stop crying" that kind of thing. My dad was very honest with my sister and I. Everything had the...

17 Mar 07

How do you deal when you and your husband have such huge parenting differences?

hgaldes @hgaldes (24) • United States 16 Mar 07

Oh HELP! What do you wives do out there when your hubby is just so different then you???? I do all that I can to keep the peace but he is just so much harder on the kids then I am. He works non-stop so I am with them 95% of the...

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hgaldes Thank you for your response. You are quite right on many points. I am a softie - i know this.... We never have really set these important guidelines. I know that we have made half-hearted attempts but never hard-core. Both he and I are guilty on the...

17 Mar 07

How do you deal when you and your husband have such huge parenting differences?

hgaldes @hgaldes (24) • United States 16 Mar 07

Oh HELP! What do you wives do out there when your hubby is just so different then you???? I do all that I can to keep the peace but he is just so much harder on the kids then I am. He works non-stop so I am with them 95% of the...

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hgaldes I am with you on that one! The kids were fighting over a new toy tonight and he lost it. After he sent them to their rooms he told me in a parental way that I was not to buy them another toy......yes sir!

17 Mar 07

How do you deal when you and your husband have such huge parenting differences?

hgaldes @hgaldes (24) • United States 16 Mar 07

Oh HELP! What do you wives do out there when your hubby is just so different then you???? I do all that I can to keep the peace but he is just so much harder on the kids then I am. He works non-stop so I am with them 95% of the...

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hgaldes Thanks for the post! It is so hard - The kids are just 3 and 5 and so do not understand. I am just so used to the kids and their ways that I have a huge capacity of patience. Now that was for sure a learning process in of itself.

16 Mar 07