I still enjoy having my kids around - Our culture is such that our children stay with us even when they have reached adulthood; we just couldn't allow our kids to leave us and live an independent life--that is possible only when they get married, then we experience the so-called 'empty nest', and how I dread it...but it is part of the cycle of life,and I just have to prepare for it. Meanwhile, I should enjoy my children's company in our house...