How to Hold a pair of chopsticks - 1) Start by holding one of the chopstick. Stretch out the 2nd and 3rd finger, curl in the 4th and 5th finger. It will looks like 'peace' gesture. 2) Now place the first stick across your hand, rest it between u-shape gap of 2nd/3rd finger, and also rest on the tip of 4th finger. 3) Then place the 2nd chopstick in between 2nd and 3rd finger (near to their tip). It's like yo are 'cutting' the 2nd chopstick with your fingers 4) Finally rest your thumb on the 1st chopstick as well. Maneuver the 2nd/3rd finger to pick your food!