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OYouness @OYouness (87) 18 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters The title above is a translation of the famous french quote 'Quand on donne de l'importance à un ane, il se croit cheval'. This latter means that when we give lot of importance to a person, he starts acting...

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OYouness Hello Html01 I totally got your idea and I really liked the saying. I think that I should apply this method with them since I am ready to let things go. In my state, I don't hide that I don't expect a good reaction from them because I know them very well....

18 Jun 12

OYouness @OYouness (87) 18 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters The title above is a translation of the famous french quote 'Quand on donne de l'importance à un ane, il se croit cheval'. This latter means that when we give lot of importance to a person, he starts acting...

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OYouness Hi ForSouls1234 I tried to confront them many times, but each time they find an excuse or something like that to justify their behavior. The problem is I got enough of this. If they really care about this friendship, they will act diffrently in order to keep...

18 Jun 12

OYouness @OYouness (87) 15 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters A weird event happened to me these last days. There was a friend of mine who used to talk to a girl via facebook. He never saw her before, and only knew her towards facebook's inbox. He was so excited...

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OYouness I totally agree with you. Internet gives those people such confidence about themselves and such confort while expressing themselves too. So, we should not expect a lot from our interlocators in virtual world till we see their true nature in reallity.

16 Jun 12

OYouness @OYouness (87) 15 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters A weird event happened to me these last days. There was a friend of mine who used to talk to a girl via facebook. He never saw her before, and only knew her towards facebook's inbox. He was so excited...

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OYouness It is nice to hear about your friends and how you met them, and how things are going for the current moment. It is true that we should take our attention from people who we meet on internet, since We don't know what their true nature is like till we see them...

16 Jun 12

OYouness @OYouness (87) 15 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters A weird event happened to me these last days. There was a friend of mine who used to talk to a girl via facebook. He never saw her before, and only knew her towards facebook's inbox. He was so excited...

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OYouness I totally agree with you. It is about diffirencies between real life and virtual one. This last gives people opportunities to go forward their sorrows and their complecations. Which gives birth to this issue of double-face person.

16 Jun 12

OYouness @OYouness (87) 15 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters A weird event happened to me these last days. There was a friend of mine who used to talk to a girl via facebook. He never saw her before, and only knew her towards facebook's inbox. He was so excited...

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OYouness Hi ys1993 I share the same point of view with you. In fact, those people consider internet like a place where all their fairs and sorrows don't exist. So, that's why they feel kind of relieved, and they become with different personnalities. It may be a...

16 Jun 12

musicluv4life @musicluv4life (1867) • United States 14 Jun 12

some days you just feel like doing something new! Do you ever have these days? What do you do when you want to try something new? I have been thinking about photography a lot as you can see from my last few discussions. I was...

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OYouness I don't know much about photography. But what can I say to you? Take your camera and go on to take photos!. Look for people who are professionel and take their advices. I believe that if you are really interested, it would worth your efforts no matter results...

16 Jun 12

OYouness @OYouness (87) 15 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters A weird event happened to me these last days. There was a friend of mine who used to talk to a girl via facebook. He never saw her before, and only knew her towards facebook's inbox. He was so excited...

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OYouness Hello himadrisaha It is a nice thing to hear that you met your wife on Facebook, and that she was what she used to tell you she is. About my story, it turned up that later that this girl was always that shy and closed to herself. But once on internet, she...

15 Jun 12

OYouness @OYouness (87) 15 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters A weird event happened to me these last days. There was a friend of mine who used to talk to a girl via facebook. He never saw her before, and only knew her towards facebook's inbox. He was so excited...

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OYouness Hello dansazz It wasn't neither my presence nor the impact of first meeting the reason behind her shyness. We knew later from some of her friends that she is always like that. Concerning people who express better through writing, you have to specify which...

15 Jun 12

OYouness @OYouness (87) 15 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters A weird event happened to me these last days. There was a friend of mine who used to talk to a girl via facebook. He never saw her before, and only knew her towards facebook's inbox. He was so excited...

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OYouness Hi psychoartist You are right. We should be careful towards people in virtual life. We don't know for real what they look like in reallity, as we don't want to be shocked like in the situation above.

15 Jun 12

OYouness @OYouness (87) 15 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters A weird event happened to me these last days. There was a friend of mine who used to talk to a girl via facebook. He never saw her before, and only knew her towards facebook's inbox. He was so excited...

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OYouness Hi Html01 I totally agree with you. People find virtual world like a relief in which they can do whatever they want, including expressing what they keep in spirit in their real life. It is a psychological problem or maybe a solution to their sorrows.

15 Jun 12

OYouness @OYouness (87) 15 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters A weird event happened to me these last days. There was a friend of mine who used to talk to a girl via facebook. He never saw her before, and only knew her towards facebook's inbox. He was so excited...

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OYouness Hi Gesusdid That's the point. People should have one attitude towards each other in real and virtual life. In your case, your friends think that you don't treat them in reallity as you do on internet, not because you have this double face issue but because...

15 Jun 12

OYouness @OYouness (87) 15 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters A weird event happened to me these last days. There was a friend of mine who used to talk to a girl via facebook. He never saw her before, and only knew her towards facebook's inbox. He was so excited...

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OYouness Maybe it's not a choice. However, we can learn, right?. I know that it is difficult to change a character, but this isn't what I'm claiming. What I'm demanding here is to be ourselves and not some fake images from our imagination!

15 Jun 12

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OYouness @OYouness (87) 15 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters A weird event happened to me these last days. There was a friend of mine who used to talk to a girl via facebook. He never saw her before, and only knew her towards facebook's inbox. He was so excited...

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OYouness I like your sincerity PoppaDave. Maybe you are the kind of people who stick to what they are for true. I still have to check that by meeting you in real life hahah, but don't worry I can feel that you're telling the truth. Seriously, you have pointed to a very...

15 Jun 12

OYouness @OYouness (87) 15 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters A weird event happened to me these last days. There was a friend of mine who used to talk to a girl via facebook. He never saw her before, and only knew her towards facebook's inbox. He was so excited...

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OYouness Hello indahfth I truely share the same point of view. That is why most of people live this double personnality issue. That is because social networks are so seductive, and tend to offert different tools that encourage those people to be what they aren't in...

15 Jun 12

OYouness @OYouness (87) 15 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters A weird event happened to me these last days. There was a friend of mine who used to talk to a girl via facebook. He never saw her before, and only knew her towards facebook's inbox. He was so excited...

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OYouness Hi ARIES1973 So, according to you. It is lack of communication skills that allows to such paradoxe to happen. Well, if it is that way, I guess it is then possible for us to work on it in order to fix it. And since everybody is able to learn these skills and...

15 Jun 12

OYouness @OYouness (87) 15 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters A weird event happened to me these last days. There was a friend of mine who used to talk to a girl via facebook. He never saw her before, and only knew her towards facebook's inbox. He was so excited...

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OYouness Hello surveychick4 I understand your point of view, and I do respect it. Maybe this is one of explanations that we can give to this issue. People want to avoid life's pain by running away from it to virtual life. It is true that, like this, we will avoid...

15 Jun 12

OYouness @OYouness (87) 15 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters A weird event happened to me these last days. There was a friend of mine who used to talk to a girl via facebook. He never saw her before, and only knew her towards facebook's inbox. He was so excited...

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OYouness Hi PageTurner I do really make the difference between what virtual word offers as confort and distance between us and our interlocutor, and what real life imposes as contraints. However, I think that we should stick to one caracter, and apply it either in...

15 Jun 12

OYouness @OYouness (87) 15 Jun 12

Hello fellow Mylotters A weird event happened to me these last days. There was a friend of mine who used to talk to a girl via facebook. He never saw her before, and only knew her towards facebook's inbox. He was so excited...

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OYouness Hi Lauraleigh99 I think that we should have the same attitude towards people either in real life or on internet. If so, I think that we will be more respected and valued. I find it little bit hypocrit to show different personnalities. I don't deny that each...

15 Jun 12

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