what's your opinion about married with a foreigner?
@sardine372000 (42)
China
April 17, 2007 8:14am CST
the way people look at things are mostly depends on the background he or she owned,how can two people do further communication while they got so quite different education of culture?do you think the marriage between two person who come from far away country can last for a long time?
5 responses
@gabesmom (1246)
• United States
17 Apr 07
I am married to a man from different race. There are several times when we disagree on things due to our cultural and personal differences. However, love and respect for each other keep us together. We don't try to change each other to conform to our own beliefs. Instead, we learn a new way of looking at things and grow both as an individual and a couple.
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@sardine372000 (42)
• China
18 Apr 07
thanks for sharing,my friend.it seems that you and your husband had found a good way to get along well with each other.:)
@syndhujaa (252)
• India
2 Jun 07
why not..???
why do you think that their relationship wont last long..??!
Its all depends on person to person..First of all, if tw persons of different country, religion and even different continent want to tie up..they will know their partner well..then only they will decide to tie up with them..
wihtout knowing anything..no one will be ready to marry the person..so..its absolutely okay to marry the other person if the two individuals are ready and if everything goes well..nothing is wrong in it..
but some might think in different way..it all depends from person to person as I said be4..this is my view..!
@sardine372000 (42)
• China
3 Jun 07
But,in my opinion,the people who come from different countries can't have a deep understand of each other.Of course they have known a cetain part of each other before they decide to tie up together.As time goes by, it will appeare a series of problems that make them two dissagree with other.But, it is just my own point of view.Thanks for sharing.
@aries_0325 (3060)
• Philippines
10 Jan 08
Some say they just marrying a foreigner because of money. But for me if you love the person, go and marry.
@rikki8 (392)
• Philippines
28 May 07
I stayed in a european country over 20 years had my first gf there but still did not end up with her. I integrated well in their culture even became one of their nationals. But, when she came to the Philippines for a visit, she did not like our children 'to be' to study in their father's home country. This to me was unacceptable as it was obvious she never accepted nor respected the culture that her the father of her kids would be representing. I guess all of us have our own fate written from the time we are born. Thanks God!
@sardine372000 (42)
• China
2 Jun 07
Thanks for sharing. One of my foreign teachers who married with a Chinese girl had got some problems about their marrige.So I thought that it may be a stacle for the people who comes from different countries to get together.
