My friend's boy problems...
@heres2thescarsUleft (313)
United States
April 17, 2007 12:16pm CST
So I have this friend that always finds herself in the strangest situations with guys. She tries to be their friend and they always end up wanting more...and believe me she doesn't lead them on at all. She's very pretty but has no "game" whatsoever...she's socially retarded when it comes to guys.
Just last night she had two of her guy friends ask her out throught text messages and she doesn't know what to do. She still wants to be their friend but doesn't want to break their hearts. So what advice should I give her? I told her she should tell them the truth - that she doesn't want to date until she's ready for marriage. But knowing her she will probably avoid both guys altogether because she doesn't want to hurt them.
What do you guys think?
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@mycharm88 (2288)
• Philippines
12 Sep 07
hello there!!!
I see that this was posted 5 months ago, but i still would want to share something at least.lol
I think your advice was right, she should tell them the truth, the fact that it's an informal invitation from guys (through text msgs) She should not worry about hurting their feelings because that is the right thing to do. She must learn to say no to things she doesn't like. It's her choice anyway.c",)
be happy always..tc
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@heres2thescarsUleft (313)
• United States
14 Sep 07
Thanks for your input! I agree you with you completely. :)
