how you treat your husband/wife's friends?

My friends are my husband's friends and there are some who are women, I don't get jealous at all since we are friends with the same people. But if he treated one a little too well and got a little too close then yes I would be upset.

i treat them very casually and happily. i dont jealous of my wife's friends at all. if my wife says something hot about her friend, i dont mind, and i enjoy it by participating in such discussion. but but but.... i feel a lot of jealousy if my girlfriend talks like that. i am too much possesive for her. i am having frequent fights with her for that and ofcourse we finds love for each others in those small fights and jealousy feelings in each others. is it wrong? :-)

Well, I don't really have any girlfriends, it is hard for me to get along with any girls. But if I had any girlfriends, I would get jealous if I thought for an instant he thought she was a hottie. My husband has his guy friends over all the time and he has no problem with me conversating with them. He is very cool. I enjoy his friends company, but I do not see them any other way then as a friend. I think my husband knows that, and that's why he has no problem with it. I on the other hand do not trust my husband, although I should because he has never hurt me, so I think he is always looking at other girls, especially if one comes over to hang out with us. I guess it isn't very fair, is it. Oh well.

I treat my hubby's friends with respect. I don't treat them any differently than I would my friends. As far as my hubby, most of the time he ignores my friends when they are over knowing its girl time for me. When he's not ignoring us he treats them just like he would his guy friends. We have a pretty good relationship so we don't stress about the small stuff like this.

I do not think so.I am a girl,I treat my boyfriend's friends as my own.Because I love my bf.And my bf also treat my friends very well too,because we respect each other.And I think it is so good,which we can share our friends with each other.

sally it all depends on person to person.i would say it is rather a matter of ones personal thinking rather than a general rule.if a person is broad minded and has full trust in his partner he would not care for his or her friends.he would feel good .men do feel good for their wives as they will have someone to talk and so they wont get bored.on the other hand women because they are so attached sometimes become over possessive and that is when they feel like their husbands can have their affairs.