Who don't love me don't deserve me!!

what a lovely grandfather you have. i just save these words for us here too. i was treatened really bad in school because i was a crazy girl, more like a boy lol. and the reason was, my parents where the first who did divorce in our village, and that in the early 50's. my thoughts where, you can break what you want, you can take what you want, but my brain and my thingking is my own. that helped me through a very bad childhood and i still use it.

It's amazing how thoughts and perceptions can change our mood.It's words that can push us into abyss of depressions or lift us to heights of delight.It is interesting when we draw parallels from childhood games to real life.They aren't too different from each other.Just that the puzzles of life are a little more complicated than those sweet games,but can still be approached an won with similar stragizing. When I am not loved back by people whose proximity I want , I might feel little hurt,but with time I do realise that it's just a phase and eventually they too will like me the way I do.If it never happens even with time and my efforts, I convince myself top move on.Life is too beautiful to be spent away on what can't be yours.There are better colors when we look away from blindspots.

i think it's a good proverb to remember.. those who do not love me, don't deserve me. it's a positive attitude in accepting rejections in life. if someone does not love you nor like you, better not to force yourself to that person. if he/she does not want you in her/his life, then, it's her lost then. you'll survive anyway without him/her in your life, right? just keep on going. there are people who love you the way you are... people who deserve your attention and time. better not dwell on people who rejects your attention at all.

I have proverb in my life .. It's hunger is the best cook -- If u don't know how to cook and there is no mean by which u can get food -- either by ordering it from some restaurant or any other option that u will definitely cook food on your own .. no matter u know -- how to cook food or not .. that is why it's the saying -- hunger is the best cook. Even I don't know how to cook but manytimes when there is no one at home and I have no other option of getting food and I feel so hungry then -- I just try to cook something for myself. So the saying is just perfect.

With friend around, you can make pound. Thankgiving heart is a virtue.

yes i like that one, i'll have to had it to my book. I love quotes and sayings,so all the ones i like i keep in a big book, i must says it's pretty full now, I am trying to think of one I really like but there are so many, too hard to choose. But here are a few i like, I am not sure who said them though... If you judge people you have no time to love them Speak when you are angry and you'll make the best speech you'll ever regret That which hurts also instructs Judge me all you want, just keep the verdict to yourself Detachment is, rather than feeling like you are loosing him, it is realizing he has lost you

I have never heard this Saying before but it is a very good saying and I have to admit that it is a true saying to and I will remember this saying in the Future I don't have any sayings as such The only thing that I say is you accept as I am or don't you don't

I used that proverb a lot of time to cheer me up when people seems to forget my existance...I use it now, too. I'm trying to believe that it's real that if someone doesn't love me, t's because they don't deserve me. I'm a person, I want respect. If they can't give it to me because they don't want to give it, then goodbye. But I suffer anyway...xD

Proverbs represent the wisdom of cultures, I use them only very seldom, but I like reading them for a cultural reason, I'm a very curious person, and so I like reading a lot of things about cultures in the world. I think that your grandfather told you the most right proverb for your sad situation and I like this proverb, but.... looking at your avatar (I think it's a photo of you) I think that the right saying should be: "Who doesn't love you is a stupid" because you are so beautiful that I can't believe that someone doesn't want to play a game with you....

Hi! I also don't force myself on others, so I would sort of say, "Take it or leave it." But the saying that I keep on applying in my daily life is "It's all in the state of mind". This means that I could tackle anything in my life because everything will be fine as long as I keep my mind focused into doing something. I never give up because I know I can make it with the proper state of mind. Happy myLotting!

Hi Augustta, How are you doing? I hope that you will think about what i am going to say. Actually, I have to admit that I really feel respect toward your grandfather and thinks really he was a good parent for you, he showed you his love and support. No more evidence but your memories of him and of his words that you kept in mind until now. On the other hand, you are not that little girl anymore!!! Actually, if we just think about the issue in terms of love. Love needs generators. People used to love others depending of what they got from them. So love is not automatic (in 90% of cases, whatever I believe it should be). You have to deserve people's love. You have to acquire this love. So may be you think that who doesn't love you doesn't deserve you. But don't forget to deserve their love for you.

Thats trying to be positive all the time. When things wont come our way we should be in a position to face those. Proverbs do a great help in such kind of situations. When some one reject to help me i just think you don't have the pleasure of helping me. Though what ever the situation is i don't feel bad all we can do is try. Never expect the result to be this way. So proverbs keep your head at cool, trying to wipe away the effect of the act.

What a fantastic saying! It is 100% right isnt it, yet so easy to forget it! I think its easy getting upset about someone hurting you, but really its there loss. I also like the saying 'what doesnt kill you, can only make you stronger'! Thinking about it, this is quite a strong statement, but i do believe both are very correct x