Friends on a probationary status?
@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
Philippines
April 18, 2007 7:08am CST
I'm still overwhelmed by my email notification's of started discussions by my friends. I must admit I have a snail pace as of now. I'm still trying to cope up with the promptness of other users to start and to respond to discussions. How I envy them for having such a good pace here in Mylot.
Maybe you wondered how my introduction is connected to the title of my discussion. Here it goes. I admit again 'till now to have a snail pace. But I take my time to read and think on a wise and respectful response to others posts. This is on my part ha. No understatement. Just for me. (^^,LOL)
I also take time to know my friends better, by reading their discussions and chatting too. And I have made a lot friends here, that last night I ended up chatting a lot and less mylotting. Wich gave me 900 emails still to be read. (^^,LOL)
So even if it was already late I started to read my one week old notifications. And I was able to read them only but I really wanted to respond to them too. And there to my surprise, when I tried to view the whole discussion, I was to respond to, I saw on the user's profile "add as a friend".
I was surprised and quite shocked too. I never knew that I would have been on a probationary status of seven days since the last email notification or more I don't know. I mean I missed to respond to it within 1 week and it is as if I found myself on the road once more. It is very difficult to explain the feeling but I hope you understand what I'm trying to explain.
I just don't know really. I'm clueless, speechless. If some of my friends feels like I'm not responding much to your discussions or as prompt as lightning, I hope some understanding, will ...Well, I just don't know what to say.
It's just, I don't have a heart to do the same thing to someone who doesn't respond to my discussions or if I only see him/her once in a while. And from a really very few numbers of friends, I think the user really picked me "out" of its list. I would understand if "it" counted a hundreds of friends but unfortunately it's not the case. I'm just so sad of not having been given the opportunity to explain or prove my genuine friendship.
It hurts a little when someone's denies your invites of friendship. But you still have some understanding and respect for their decisions.
But to have consider (I think everybody consider whether yes or no, before approving a friends request) and approve the request and after a few days to delete it. I don't know, I'm really sad. (^^u~~~
Have this kind of situation happened to you? What do you think of a probationary status, is it fair? without even a notice or PMs to the "friends" on your friend's list?
I'm not talking about the hundreds ratio of friends ha. Don't get me wrong. This situation of mine has, if I may say a ratio of less than 30 persons on "its" friends list.
In advance, thank you for all who understands. I put hard work in my responses. I'm glad to those who appreaciate my effort. And any (postives especially) advices would be highly appreciated and "clicked here and there" for all. (^^,)
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36 responses
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
18 Apr 07
I am sorry but I do not understand what you are talking about here,
what probationary status, for what?
do you mean that you only have 7 days to respond to a request to be added as a friend?
And if somebody deletes you so what, good riddance, you didn't need that person anyway, that person was never your friend to begin with.
Don't sweat over the little things hon, there are far more important things to worry about like your husband getting well.
He will be the one that will be with you when you need someone to love and support you, not some nameless user name on mylot who deleted you
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Thanks Winterose. I mean to say it was like as if you were accepted but yet under observation. Something like that. Hard to explain really. But I really appreciate your response and advices. Thank you very much. I feel better now.
And by the way, I don't have a husband, we have separated for almost 4 years now. I'm only with my parents, daughter and siblings. And you made a very good point it is just a nameless person. So sad it didn't got to know me better before deleting me. But anyway, thank you thank you very very much. By the way, how's your book going? (^^,)
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
19 Apr 07
It is okay sweetie, remember family and true friends first, mylot people can be good friends don't get me wrong but mostly they are nameless email addresses. If every they do become a good friend that does everything that good friends do then you can feel sad, but now just do the best you can hon, and look out for the most important people in your life.
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
Well said Winterose, I really appreciate your heartwarm comment. By the way, may I copy your posted book review and I will paste in on my blog on another site. I think your book is excellent and it would be an honor for me to spread the words for it. (^^,)
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@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
18 Apr 07
The same thing happened to me before when someone whom I thought was a friend deleted me. I did start a discussion on that so you might still remember it. Anyway he explained that it was likely a mistake and he didn't know till I told him about it. Well.
If you really want to be friend with that person, try sending the request again. It might be a glitch as well. Otherwise, don't bother.
Regarding the emails, when I find time and patience, I will turn off email notification for those who have been routinely spamming me with things I don't like, read or respond to. When I am free, I might check "discussions started by my friends" but that's that.
There are still some whom I still have notification on for (haven't got to them yet) - but I basically delete the notifications as soon as I see the names. I know I would just be wasting my time reading the content - so why bother? I don't mind keeping these people on my friend list though. That said, I wouldn't think I would be missed if I remove them either.
And it is precisely those people who have few friends on their lists who are more particular about such things. They like to keep a cozy number so after realizing you are not that responsive, they chop up up, mutilate you and then dump you out of the window. :P
@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Thank you my Lord! I think I won't be asking why or request friendship with "it" again. I might end up like "grind meat" after. (^^,LOL) I will just let it be. And I have not yet decided too which are to be notified off. I'm still getting to know most of my friends. Maybe when I'll be more familiar with their way of posting etc..Well, so be it, I'm not perfect and I'll just try my best and enjoy the company of true friends, like you My Lord! Thank you very much for being so supportive, eversince I started here. And as I have always said I'm glad to have you as a friend my Lord! *curtsy-bow* (^^,)
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@kaplya (1578)
• India
18 Apr 07
u shouldn't be worried about it very much in my opinion. as far as i understand there r many people on mylot who r only money minded and who have calculated some rules for themselves and the people who would be or wouldn't be on there friend list! maybe these people think themselves too important and so to say very practical ("if u r not giving me any help better be off my list"). maybe it's a "right" approach but one demands at least some patient. anyway i think it shouldn't hurt u very much because if the person is of such mentality he/she doesn't worth ur friendship anyway! especially because he/she is unable to give time and patience in a friendship and to recognise/understand people...but giving a second thought u may send a friend request again to the person to check if it was done by mistake or u've assumed it right..
as for me i don't work on such probationary periods even if i m EVER going to think about deleting someone(who was never a friend in any sense actually) i would give the person at least some months or so before taking such a step..
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@kaplya (1578)
• India
18 Apr 07
don't say that my friend!:) it doesn't matter if someone doesn't look through my discussions. i don't mind that but what i don't like is that they don't even take pains to comment on my replies despite my being active in their discussions.. at least u r better than them!:D when i don't delete them then how comes the chance of my deleting u?:) u r a nice person, i m never going to delete u even if u don't pay me attention:P and thanx for being active on my profile too i love those cute cute comments!^^
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Yah, maybe "it" had its own algorithm of friends to follow. But on second though too, I won't be sending another friend request. I might end up like "grind meat". Scary! I'll just stick to my true friends now. Thankyou very much Kaplya! Hope you won't kick my b--t out ha. Because I think I'm more active adding comments to your profile. (^^,LOL) By the way, I hope you like them. The glitter Hoghoney fever has affected me too. (^^,LOL) I just love them..
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Thank you Kaplya, and I'm glad you like those cute comments. I really got a hang on them too. And I was even planning on placing at least one on each of my friends profiles. I have already started but I have many more to go. And by the way I have found a new one for you and Hoghoney. I can't wait to paste them to your profiles. May you have more blessings my friend especially for being so kind! (^^,)
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@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Oh my sweetie, if you will check on one of my previous thread about mylot friends, I was practically breathing fire and declaring to all my friends that I was upset. I had deleted a lot of friends who had requested themselves on my list but forgot that I'm still alive, LOL!
I've been here long enough to realize that we should detach ourselves from this virtual world. We can't please everyone. Either you deleted this "friends" or turn the notifier off, it will be up to you. I stopped deleting friends for now.
I was also indisposed for about 4 days. I'm feeling pretty burned out for now. I wasn't able to post a new thread, responded to a few threads of my friends and need to comment back on some of my previous threads. I need to work doubly hard just to catch up on everyone. Do your work and forget about those questionable friends. You'll get use to it. I'd been there too and had learned my lessons too well.
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Thank you Bunnycharms for being so supportive and a very good friend to me. And yes, thank you, I have learned my lesson too now. And I will rejoice on my remaining true friends, here in Mylot. Take care! (^^,)
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@bluewings (3857)
•
18 Apr 07
I can understand how it might feel like,Aphroditei.I don't know how old that friend of your's is on Mylot , but I would not do that to someone unless they deliberately hurt me over and over again.I was amazed to read you had 900 emails to answer and can easily understand why you can't make it to them all .Hey,I can't even make to 100 in one day! lol That would mean I will be deleted by many of my friends ,lol.I am sure the initial feeling isn't going to be nice,but wisdom would prevail and I' appeal to you for the same
I think we have to accept the fact that everyone on Mylot isn't here to make friends and they might take some people out for whatever reasons without weighing the reasons.I am equally sure that you will have a deluge of friend requests to follow and many more mails in your inbox to respond to,lol.The loss of a friend isn't a nice feeling,but it could be accidental and they might even decide to rectify that.If they don't I'd say let's focus on what we have and what we don't might find us eventually.Please don't be sad my friend.There is a lot of friends you have who care about you (^^,) Say cheese :-)
@bluewings (3857)
•
18 Apr 07
Yes,I am aware that your choice of words could make a lawyer proud,(^^,LOL) I don't think you could have in any way said anything that would hurt someone.And yes, I did notice your response to one of our mutual friend's discussions late at your place.So, I knew you were catching up on Mylot.If Mylot could bring in two levels with gradations of friendship without the option of demotion then it will be interesting,lol,if it's not abused that is.lol I just got baptised :-P (^^,LOL) *Thanks,Aphroditei!* Yep,focus should be our primary objective I guess.
Every positive has a downside like every negative has a hidden silverlining.So,perhaps you are right in that a sudden swell in friend request wouldn't be a great thing when we consider what might follow.Even I wouldn't like that.But hey! You have more friends than I have (^^,LOL) So,please don't be upset anymore coz then I'd have to hide my face.:-P(^^,lol)
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Bluewings, you're too kind. I'll soon turned red like an apple. And don't worry my happy buterflies came all back. And I'm very thankful for friends like you. And don't hide such a brilliant and kind face. I should be the ashame to cause you so much trouble and worries. Thank you dear Mr.P! You're too kind really. (^^,)
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
"It" is a great poster if base on "Its" number of post.
I don't think I have said or post something to have upset "it". You know how careful I'm with my words. I just noticed it last night, and to be honest I didn't slept until late morning. Not because of "it" but I wanted to catch up with my emails, so I can update them. Hay! And yes you are right, I think there should be 2 boxes here in Mylot, like associates friends, and true friends, something like that. So at least you are aware of any uncertain situation.
And thank you for the kind words Bluewings. You are really a knight in shining armor. And yes, you are right I'll stay focus now. It was just the first time it happened to me. But now with all the words of encouragement and support, I'm more thankful for the friends I have now. Take care Mr. P! *wink*(^^,)
And I hope they won't be a deluge of friends request, because may be I would end up having my b--t kick out again. (^^,LOL) **focus**
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Hi Kissthis! Here is the situation, I checked my email and the last notification is dated 7 days ago. I was going to attend to it and to respond, but I was surprised to see "add as a friend". So it means, seven days before I was still on "its" less than 30 friends and after 7 days I was deleted. *bow* Well, I'm ok now. I just wanted to breathe it out. But anyway, so be it, that the way to grow up here in Mylot. Accept and move on. Life is more beautiful without "it". Hope you have a nice day! And thank you for responding too.(^^,)
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@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
23 Apr 07
I do not believe there is a probationary status for the members here. I do not get upset if my friends are not able to respond to my post or respond at all to them since they may not have any knowledge or interest about a particular topic. I never expect everyone to respond to my topics. I have about 600 emails in my inbox right now so it will take me a while as well to read them and try to respond to them so hope everyone understands as well. Most of the time I will go ahead and add people who want to be friends but I will delete them if they start breaking the rules or do not reply at all. Have a wonderful day. :-)
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Thank you Kg for responding and understanding too. Have a wonderful day too! (^^,)
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
19 Apr 07
When you are busy trying to do a good job on Mylot it is sometimes hard to cover all the bases. After 7 days this person may have thought you weren't interested and let you go. Don't worry about that. It will happen to all of us and it is just part of the process here.
I have quite a few friends that seem to no longer be on here. People come and go as in real life. Let it go and keep on going. You will find you have many more friends in no time.
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@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
20 Apr 07
You are very welcome of course and I lookl forward to being your friend. I am not as on as often as some but I will be looking for you. Take care.
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
It was the first time it happened to me. And I must admit the adjusting period here in Mylot is not yet over for me.(^^,LOL) But with the help of supportive and understanding members here. I will stay longer here in Mylot. And I'll get use to the process. Soon?! I hope. (^^,LOL) By the way thank you for your sensible response. I hope we can be friends! Have a great day! (^^,)
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
Thank you again Jbrooks! Take care too. And thank you for adding me as a friend! (^^,)
@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
19 Apr 07
Take all the time you need my girl, and for what it is worth I think you are one of the sweetest and and most courteous friends here on MyLot.
Wow and good luck with the 900 emails! What a daunting task!
Stay as sweet as you are, and tis probation nonsense, just forget about it, those that can't wait patiently can go to better hunting grounds!:))))
@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
You're so sweet Annie. And too kind to me. *blush* To be courteous is really a pleasure to me. Especially to sweet, supportive, kind and very helpful friends, like you. Thank you for the constant kindness and support. I'm glad to have you as a friend. Keep up the good works too! Have a beautiful day!! (^^,)
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
I am not really aware that one could put somebody on 'probationary' friendship since I haven't done it to anybody. I really understand how you feel and what the other users are trying to do when they put somebody on probationary. They are really choosy and those who gets choosy are those who has been here awhile. I am not yet choosy but there are times that I wished that I didn't add some people on my friends list since they never respond to my discussions while I keep on responding to theirs. Being 'friends' here means supporting each other by responding and rating the discussions of those who are in our list. However not everybody are like that and I guess those who deleted friends and have become choosy doesn't like 'takers' only. This is a give and take site and the choosy ones really want only those who really are active in responding to be on their discussions. Accumulating a lot of friends who doesn't respond could just clog up our emails. As for myself, I prioritize my responding to my friends who are actively responding to my discussions.
@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
I haven't find another term to explain the situation. It was like having a probi job and 1 week after I was fired. (^^,LOL) But I'm ok now thank you to all my supportive friends, like you Cd.And thank you for responding too. I'm really glad I have a friend like you. Take care! (^^,)
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@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
19 Apr 07
Trust you to come up with the term "probationary" status for friend's request. I was indeed surprise that you got a "probationary" status. I guessed it is because you request to be a friend of that person and that person put you on probation :P
I fully understand the feeling and know what you are trying to explain. There are many friends I hesitated to request simply because I am afraid of having my request rejected. Some friends only need friends to respond to their discussions, and perhaps, all their discussions.
I too receive email notifications, and I often try to clear them daily if possible. For the last week, I had no chance to check my mails for 2 days and it took me a week to finally clear all notifications. Now, my response is still about 2 days late. NOw, I no longer request for friends. It's friends who made the requests. I am comfortable with just 'servicing' my few friends.
@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
Thank you Whyask, *blush*, I'm happy to be in your few but well serviced/cherished friends. And you are more lucky than me, I'm still trying to catch up my one week delay. (^^,LOL) But I'm trying my best. *bow* (^^,LOL) And thank you again for the warm support. I'm honor to have you as a friend. (^^,)
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@Tir_Na_nOg (508)
• Ireland
18 Apr 07
Something very similar has happened to me. I accepted a person who sent me a friends and after that person responded to one of my discussions I gave him best response. I also responded to as many of his discussions as possible and I found out later that he had deleted me from his friends for no apparent reason. It doesn't really bother me and I will just continue as before and respond to my friends discussions.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
There were some mylotters that offerred me their friendship which I have noticed that it was I who was doing most of making responses and got practically zero from them. After a while, I noticed that their discussions no longer come out in discussions my friends started. When I went into their profile, I found that they have deleted me as a friend. No worry, they are not worth keeping anyway.
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Very well said Tir_Na_Nog and I'm happy to have you as a friend. Hope you bear with my snail pace. But I don't forget friends. Have a nice day! and thank you!(^^,)
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
Very well said too Trinidad. I'm happy to have you as a friend and you're very much worth to keep too. It's a great honor! (^^,)
@magicalmerlin (1623)
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18 Apr 07
I am trying to be a 'good friend' to the people on MyLot so have not befriended many people yet as it would be too much for me to cope with. I seem to have some of the wrong ones at the moment though and seem to answer the same discussions as a different group of people. (I hope that makes sense to readers.) There is one 'friend' that starts about 15 discussions each day and never replies to comments, or rates or does best response (as far as I can tell) but his topics are quite interesting to read and don't take long as they don't get many responses. I am not quite sure what he is contributing to MyLot though.
I could not cope with 900 e-mails and am not surprised you did not manage. If they were not willing to wait that long they were not worth having as a friend anyway. Don't feel bad. Every cloud has a silver lining and you can meet some nicer people via this discussion.
I did not seem to express myself very well but am offering sympathy and thinking of you. Chin up!
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Very well said Magicalmerlin and I really appreciate having you as a friend. And don't worry you have express yourself well. Thank you for the support and kind words! I hope I can make it up too you, you are very present in my post and I'm very thankful. Hope you have a great day! (^^,)
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@aciddrop (798)
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19 Apr 07
we can tell you work hard on responses or you wont remain 10:)yeah some people can be very prompt with posts and make tons of every day.but we dont see their devotion from those posts anyway.to me i put the quality of discussions and responses the first place followed by quantity.it doesnt make sense to boost the number by all one-line response does it?
as for the friends case,i feel sorry for the person who did that on you coz he/she has lost a really nice friend.but dont feel too bad about it.some people just dont care about anything here.
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
Happy to hear you feel the same way with me on quality response. I really put a lot of word in my responses. Because, the posters gave an amount of precious time to to think and start their discussions. I think a little effort is worth giving back to those meaningful discussions. And thank you for your warm response my friend. I'm glad to have a friend like you who cares a lot of others and have such a good heart. Have a great day! And don't forget to bring your umbrella it is hot and sunny today! (^^,)
@GardenGerty (160883)
• United States
18 Apr 07
I do not judge my friends by how often they respond, but by whether I like what they write, and what they do with the friendship. The first friend I deleted was spamming me. Another one was a lady who, when she did respond, said mean things and was always critical. I had bad punctuation, etc. I have face to face friends I might very seldom see, and the same with MyLot friends. I have a pretty busy life right at the moment, I read and respond, and rate as much as I can. You will not find me deleting you for not responding to all of my discussions, and I hope you will not delete me either.
@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
Oh certainly not, you are a dear friend worth keeping and shame on me to even think of deleting you. No, no, no...Hope you understand my snail pace too. But I don't forget friends. Have a great day! (^^,)
@oldboy46 (2129)
• Australia
20 Apr 07
It can be hard I expect and although I have been a member for a while now, I have not been here all that much in the past due to many reasons. I have a few friends and that suits me fine .. it allows me to seek out other discussions to respond to. I was really surprised to see in a couple of instances where people had over 1000 friends .. and many others had hundreds of friends. I do not think anyone can respond to that many .. friends help each other.
I have responded to at least one discussion started by each of my friends .. now I shall wait to see what they do in return. A "real life" friend here on mylot told me they have lots of friend requests .. and they mostly accept them. they will respond to the discussions .. but if they person does not respond to any of theirs .. then they will delete them. The reason given to me was that they are happy to respond to friends .. if the friends respond to them .. but they have about 80 friends so getting to each one a few times a week is a major task. I would agree with them on that .. it would be almost impossible for many people to respond to that many friends if they all started discussions. So if a couple of weeks go by when they have responded but got no responses from the other person .. they send them a pm and if no answer within a certain time .. they delete that friend from their list.
At least they do send them a pm first .. seems like the way to do things. Each person has their own way of doing things .. but these are not real friends in many cases so why worry about it .. that's my point of view anyway.
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
Thank you Oldboy. Don't worry I do understand it by now. I just wished "it" gave me a Pm first. Well, no one is perfect. So I think "it" had good reasons to delete me to "its" less than 30 roster of friens. And my fault too, for having more than that, so I had to attend to "it" mail, too late (^^,LOL) Well, thank you for your sensible response. Have a great day! (^^,)
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
Don't feel hurt about it. It can be that that mylotter does not want to have many friends around. I have encountered this, too. I didn't mind it. It is his prerogative anyway, to take me in or to reject the offer of friendship. What's important is, we have friends around here to keep on supporting us. Those who rejected us, are most probably the ones whom we can't count on. I have read some discussions here where they say that they study the profiles and the discussions of one who offers online friendship to them. Then they reject those whom they find to be not of the same interests basing on the discussions entered into and those ones which were generated/started by the friend-applicant. I hope this has rested your qualms about online friendship. Good luck and I hope the best of things to come to you.
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
It has made my happy butterflies wild. (^^,) I mean you uplifted my spirit and you are a very supportive and good friend. I hope the best of things come to you too! More blessings! (^^,)
@yanjiaren (9031)
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18 Apr 07
I have friends requests every day lo..I have over 430 odd friends now. I can't refuse any one and I have to find a way to respond to them somehow even if they don't respond to mine. I have decided from today now that I am settled to do some heavy duty mylotting as from today lol. MY target will be one hundred responses with at least five to six lines minimum and help every one around here. I also have great plans for the future so help me God lol. I am here whenever you need me. I think I am supposed to pm you some stuff isn't it ?
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Yah, (^^,LOL) I thought you forgot about it. And I didn't wanted to rush in. Especially you were flying back to the U.K and maybe you still have your jet lag. So I just waited as you said sis. Whenever you have time, squeeze my Pm in, so I can start on them. When you have time ha Sis. No rush. And thank you for the response. I really appreciate and always will all your responses and support. Take care Sis! (^^,)
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
19 Apr 07
I've had a similar thing happen to me, when I was first on myLot, and I'm still fairly new. I was really trying to find my way around here, and was getting my e-mail notifications etc., when one day, I noticed that there weren't any e-mails from one of my 'friends.' I checked my friends list, and noticed that this person was no longer on it, so they must've deleted me. I could'nt understand why, as they were one of the first friends I'd had here. You're right, it can be quite overwhelming, and everyone goes at their own pace. Your responses are always very sweet, and I wouldn't worry about what happened, as you have lots of other friends. Another thing, some days we all just get busy with life away from myLot, which is understandable, but it's good to know there are people still here waiting for us to enter in again, when time permits. All the best to you.
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@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
Oh, so sad really, isn't it? But I'm happy to hear I'm not alone with such an undesirable experience. And yes, fortunately there are still more friends out there in Mylot who are willing to wait and to understand. And I'm very thankful. I'm glad to I have such an understanding and supportive friend like you. Thank you. All the best to you too my friend! More blessings! (^^,)
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@romel_ece (1290)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Sorry to hear that from you.On my part I have understand your situation and I always regarded you as one of my friends here in myLot.Just keep on responding and posting here on myLot and keep on enjoying.God Bless!
@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Thank you Romel for the kind words and support. Keep on posting too my friend. God bless! (^^,)
