Do's and Don'ts of relationships...
By prettyfeigh
@prettyfeigh (231)
Philippines
April 18, 2007 7:59am CST
Hi everyone! What do you think are the do's and don'ts of relationship(s)? Is there such guidelines or shall we say how to keep the relationship alive? Please share us your opinions...
9 responses
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
18 Apr 07
Hi Prettyfeigh I think you should always try and keep the relationship exciting and new. Never try to change a person because it wont work out anyway. And always trust in the person you love. Never lie or keep things from your mate.
@prettyfeigh (231)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
hi terry! Good ideas. Ill follow and consider these things once i found a great partner to share it with. Thanks my friend..
@little_angel (2458)
• Australia
21 Apr 07
Just be your self when you start a new relationship, don't like to your friend. You don't want your new friend lie to you right?
Be nice and kind with them,never talk about your friend in their back.
Always respect your friend and not make them embarrass in front of other friend.
Hope its help.
@smkwan2007 (1036)
• Hong Kong
21 Apr 07
Do love your other half whole heartedly. Don't leave him if he made small mistake or argue with you for small matters. That's all I can think at the moment.
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
well i think its communication, always open. if you dont have a nice open communicative relationship with your partner the relationship is easy to fall apart. if you dont have a healthy communication a lot of things can happen. and sometimes bad things. well we females need to be good cooks. a way to a mans heart is to his tummy lol, funny but its true.
@collstarx (1177)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 07
I think we must have relationship, sometime we can use to grow we are business.
Best regards
@betchai (140)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
- Do remember that your guy is not you. Besides being male, he was raised differently and has his own habits and preferences -- that are as important and valuable for him as yours are to you. It's essential that you continually discover who he is rather than assume you already know.
- Don't blame her if the relationship isn't going the way you want. The two of you have been equal forces shaping what you have right from the very beginning. If you need to change something, let her know more about who you are and what you need.
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Well ther would be lots I guess... but to simplify it... I guess here are some that will help...
Do's
1. Dont forget to remember that love is the main reason why you are into that relationship so never forget to say and show your partner how much you love him...in everry possible way you can.
2. Respect him/her the way you want to be respected, the way you want him/her to respect hiself'herself and the way you want other people to respect him/her.
3. Be there for him as much as possible. Remember youre the "chosen one" so I bet he/she would be really glad to see you by his/her side in good and bad times.
4. Find time for him/her... no matter how busy you are. A simple hi and how are you will do...ask him/her how was his/her day day...and let him/her know how much you miss him/her. of course ended with i love you...
5. Be faithful... Dont waste the trust and the love.
6. Show a little sweetness... no matter how long your relationship is... KEEP THE LOVE ALIVE!
7. Learn to trust.
8. Be open... tell him/her how you feel...
9. Love the things and people he/she love... even if you dont like it...atleast let him/her know that what he loves matter to you.
10. Spend some times together. Never take him/her forgranted.
DONT'S
1. Never under estimate your partner...Trust him/her.
2. Dont spy. If there would be something that you want to know... ask him directly.
3. Dont tie him/her. Give him/her a little space with his self and his friends... Going apart is fine...growing apart is not.
4. Never say something that you dont mean.
5. Never argue then sleep. Settle any arguments first.
@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
18 Apr 07
the best way to maintain good relationships is to be faithful to each other and honoring each other. if you feel much greater than your conterpart the relationship is not going to pick ..and it sooner or later end up in nothingness.