If you were me, what you gonna do??
By jesseca
@jesseca (209)
Philippines
April 18, 2007 11:23am CST
i have a live in partner before.. he was 16 and im 18 when we atart to live in together.. its not that simple to do it.. we have gotten many problems in life.. but we did not give up! i bear our child.. now hes 2 years old..i am now 21 so weve been together for about 4 years.. but then suddenly... he left me.. without saying anything.. and then i found out that he got a new one... and that there living together now... i feel so hurt.. he didnt even realize how my feeling was.. and our son.. what will happen to our son?? what am i gonna do?? how can i move on?? i confront him... hes telling me that he was fall out of love from me.. it really hurt! but i must move on..
if you were in my situation, what are you gonna do?
3 responses
@Only1Andrea (796)
• United States
18 Apr 07
I really feel for you. That is a sad situation. Nevertheless, he is younger than you and is obviously not ready to settle down with one female. It is sad for your son also, but I would still allow the father to see him because he needs his dad as well, no matter how much of a jerk he may be.
I think you need to take your time and heal from the hurt and then move on. I mean build yourself up and get your self where you want to be.
Breakups are always painful, no matter what, but it will be ok. Life does go on as I am sure you may already know.
Best of luck to you and your son.
@gabesmom (1246)
• United States
18 Apr 07
I'm so sorry to hear what happened to you. You have to be strong for your son' sake. It's going to be tough taking care of a child by yourself. Ask your boyfriend for at the least some financial support, if he can't be physically present in your child's life. I hope your parents, other family members or friends can help you out in this time of need.
@navinshan (3933)
• Canada
18 Apr 07
I am really sorry for you, but don't give up in life, just leave him, and start your new life and try to bring him your son and be independent, since life is full of probelems and suffering and one has to find his own solutions to come out of it, since i know many single mothers in my country, who are independent and brave to face the solutions for there problems.
