How to date safely...
By Jennifer21
@Jennifer21 (2476)
United States
April 18, 2007 1:18pm CST
Use a little common sense to keep yourself out of trouble.
Instructions
STEP 1: Meet in public places. If possible, double date or go out with a group of people.
STEP 2: Go Dutch. By paying for your portion you won't feel as if you are under any kind of obligation.
STEP 3: Remember that alcohol affects your judgment and lessens your inhibitions. If you are drinking, keep your drink in sight at all times.
STEP 4: Don't assume just because a person claims to be religious
that he's safe.
STEP 5: Use your own mode of transportation. Your mom was right - don't ride with strangers. Always have your own ride to and from a date. And leave with a full tank.
STEP 6: Arrange to meet your date; don't let him pick you up at home.
STEP 7: Be cautious about letting someone know exactly where you live. It's scary to be stalked later if things don't work out.
STEP 8: Avoid secluded areas such as beaches and parks.
STEP 9: Listen to your gut. If something doesn't feel right, it probably isn't.
Tips & Warnings
Always let someone else know where you're going and who you'll be with. You might even consider arranging a time to call and check in. I know I have gotten into a few dangerous situations, just be careful and use these tactics. Have you ever gotten yourself in a dangerous situation with a date? Tell all.
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@Graymsqtech (496)
• United States
19 Apr 07
I think christianity today has lots of good hints for singles as well.
@Graymsqtech (496)
• United States
19 Apr 07
I think you are giving some real good advice. I also think all young girls should heed it. I think that I would add someone who knows where you are is a good thing as well.