what do u do if your husband is cheating you?
By jross143
@jross143 (52)
Italy
April 18, 2007 4:27pm CST
guys just want only your opinion. i have this problem with my husband. last year there is a girl in the internet having affair with my husband i thought it's just only a past time for my husband so it didn't bother me. but one day i have this strange feeling so i decided to open my husband id at yahoo. but to my dismay he change the password so i' am more eager to open it. i' am asking myself why he change his id's password i try my best to open it and thank god i made it when i open his id i saw this girl message that she's giving this address where she live she's talking with a money. so i got suspect i read all the message archieve with my husband there i got mad i can't really explain what i felt hat day i'm angry i want to kill my husband that day. y bcoz i read this message that my husband send a money to this wore. i fight with him at the end he told me it's true. he ask me forgiveness i gave it but i told him to leave that wore and he leave it. but now i opened again his yahoo id someone send him a message that telling she change her yahoo id so that they can talk easily and the girl is no other than the damn wore. im confused i hate my husband for cheating me again tell me guys what should i do? do i need to talk with him? he might tell me a lie his a lier and he will be a lier forever. i hate him
1 person likes this
4 responses
@missybal (4490)
• United States
2 May 07
Leave him!!!!
You gave him a second chance and he failed you need to have enough respect for yourself to walk away. Really he will never be only yours. Why try talking to him I think he will only lie to you. Good work on investigating. Find yourself someone who will be true to you like you deserve.
@delenep (212)
• United States
18 Apr 07
Cheating, even if its online is cheating and u need to take him to task and put your foot down. Ur worth more than that.
As for if it was my husband...we've discussed this and I've promised to Lorenna Bobbitt him if he EVER cheated on me, including ever looks at another woman.
@jross143 (52)
• Italy
18 Apr 07
i know but i can't help my feeling i feel bad about it yeah it's true it is my husband we've already fight with that instead of quitting he continued and he didn't tell me anything bout that wore i can't easily forget what he did he send money to that girl so means he cared that girl. anyways thanks for dropping by.
@apakabar2007 (1693)
• Netherlands
9 Jun 07
I know easier said than done, but if you don't have any children with him, I would say leave him before it will hurt you even more. There are enough men in this world that will appreciate and treat you better. Otherwise go to a marriage counseling and therapy to find some advice and help and maybe even law advice. Good luck !!! Wish you all the best...
