Do you think about your ex's?
By Blazing15
@Blazing15 (333)
United States
April 18, 2007 4:29pm CST
Even if you are married or with someone, do you think about your ex's at all. It's kinda hard to forget about you know your first love and the one that you lost your virginity too and had long relationships with. I was just wondering if you ever think about your ex and if you ever talk with your partner about your ex's?
7 responses
@rodeotexas (1153)
• United States
18 Apr 07
Well I have talked with my husbnd about my ex's and he has done the same. I really don't think about any of mine. If there is one I think about it is only because he is in the military and his mom will email me to check and see how I am doing. Other than that no I do not think about them at all. I believe they are he past and I am not with them for a reason or reasons so why think about them.
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@Blazing15 (333)
• United States
19 Apr 07
Me and my husband talk very freely about our ex's and we asked each other any questions that we want to know about. I know pretty much every single thing he did with these people. I think that it is good to just get stuff out in the open.
@Phaedra_Scythe (3325)
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18 Apr 07
I don't think you ever fully get over your first love. There are always strong feelings of some sort there. I can never think logically about it.
My partner doesn't like me to talk about my exes though. He gets angry and upset if I even mention them. I think it would be healthier to be able to discuss our pasts with each other.
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@Blazing15 (333)
• United States
19 Apr 07
I don't think you do either. Your first love will always be in your mind no matter how hard you try to block it. Sorry that your partner doesn't like to talk about it. Maybe he just feels like he doesn't want to hear what some other guy did to his girl. I used to think like that but I am fine with it now somewhat.
@Karlo111187 (237)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
me, i dont do that. because past is past for me. it would be unfair with my present relationship if i will do that. i love my partner now.
@yummy_you20 (14)
• United States
19 Apr 07
I have a few times, but that doesn't mean I tried to. It comes to mind every once in a blue moon because I would do something that is similar to what we did.
@Blazing15 (333)
• United States
20 Apr 07
Some times I don't mean to either but Sometimes it just pops into my head. I try to get it out but it just lingers back. Nothing bad or anything but just stuff that we used to do.
@brand4less (1061)
• Indonesia
30 Apr 07
oh..i hope my hubby will not read my posting :)) well,for truth it's very rare to me thinking about my first love (the man who took my virginity), for me that time was only experiment..but i/m still thinking about my last bf for the reasons i even dont know why.when i ate something that he also like, then i will remember..when i passed some places that we passed before, i also will remember him.. it's not bcoz i don't love my husband, if i can turn back time and choose which man i will marry, i still will choose my husband. i will never talk about this of coz, it's not a good topic to discuss between me and my hubby. so it's only between me and myLot :))
@winscel143 (28)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
yes, sometimes i think of my ex girlfriend and i really feel bad about it, i have the feeling of guilt because i just dumped her after i got what i want from her, but now i really want to say sorry to her for what ive done,
@Hobbz05 (84)
• Canada
27 Apr 07
I still think about my first love and the person i lost my virginity too cause it was the same person and it was the same for her. she was a virgin before me we lasted 3 yrs and had a son together. Been almost a year and a half and i'm beginning to realize she'll always be in my life as much as i wish i could just forget and that i'm always going to have a part of her inside! It's kinda hard to realize you can't just walk away and forget anymore, not when u have no choice but to keep in contact for the sake of a child!
