Gays good or bad?
@mommey20032005 (264)
United States
April 18, 2007 4:58pm CST
When it comes down to it, I don't think it's bad. I just got into a huge fight with my fiance over gays. He says it a sin and he will not allow it in our home. He hates seeing gays in public showing feelings towards each other. My aunt is gay and I never had a problem with it. I told him what happens if one of our children turned out to be gay when they grew up. would disown him or her? I love my children deeply and would support them in there choices in life. He said that he would allow them into his house, but with rules. no hugging,kissing. No affection at all!!!!! We grew both grew up differently, he was raised to believe that gays will go to hell and that it's a sin. I was raised to believe that god loves everyone, I grew up with my aunt who was gay and she loved her partner so much. you can't help who you love, it just happens. What do you think? :)
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@krisrael24 (62)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
well your fiance have his own free will not to like gays these is a democratic country and he is entitled to his own feelings.. though i think gays being like very affectionate and doing PDA or public display of affection would have you feel bad. they're just expressing thier feelings. just give it try to look at their good side. what do you think?
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@kathrynmay (121)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
Some gays are good, some are bad but since they are also human who have their own heart, they are generally or shoulld I say all good. Its just a matter that their wants are different but they also need acceptance just like us. Who wants to be rejected anyway? The thing that just makes the situation bad is when they are not in the right or proper behavior. We should also learn how to accept them in our society since all of us are created equal in the eyes of God. That all of us human who has feelings. When it comes to loving their same gender (male) that will already depend between both of them. At the end of the day what matters is how you treated people in the right way and not how people has condemned you because of your identity. As long as gays doesn't hurt anybody then it won't be a big deal at all.
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@zjenikka (292)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
G**s are good.. that is very true!!!! as an additional: g**s are very talented, skillful, creative and most of all very generous and thoughful people.
I for one like g**s because i find them very nice people. Nobody in our family circle is g** though but i like g** people for a sense that they are very talented.
Just try to check and discover the great designers.. they are g**s right?... who have big names in the business industry? g**s right? so g**s are not bad...
@CLUBSUGAS (257)
• United States
19 Apr 07
9 out of 10 str8 men who oppose gay people have tendencies to act on a homosexual act or have had an abusive encounter with either their father or other dominant male figure.
@cutiedhes (507)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
Gays for me are not bad, I have met gays and they became my friends. Maybe gays are said to be bad because on their physical appearance because they say that only man and woman are made by God. But we cannot blame them if ever they become like that its their choice we just have to accept them, support and love them as they are.
@Itrustngod (79)
• United States
19 Apr 07
I think Gay people are not bad , But what they are doing is. Showing love for someone is the greatest thing we can do . I think that if we choose to be gay that we should not openley display it but do it in our own privacy of our homes . Nowadays it is more excepted in our world but there are still alot of opeople out there that do not except it. So it would be up to that couple whether they would want to show it out in the open.
@stefan_diego (556)
• Canada
19 Apr 07
Pls tell your fiancè that homosexuality is a choice not a crime. I've been around gay people half of my life and I feel secure because they seem to be happy to just be accepted in society. Everytime they feel that people don't mind who they are, is enough to make their day. Gay people have been around for centuries, even before Christ came. And I never witnessed being gay ever hurt anyone in this world.
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
19 Apr 07
I don't think it is anyone's business who is sleeping with who. People are people and we are all the same. It just blows me away when people think gays are different. Why is it anyone's business and why should they care? I love people who are themselves and are nice people. I don't like mean people and people who pretend to be someone they aren't. So I think there are good gays and bad gays, the same as there is good breeders and bad breeders. My gay friend calls us straight breeders and I think that is pretty accurate.
