My best friend love my boyfriend and they having affair in my back

Your friend broke the two of the most important factors in a friendship to be called a real frienship and that are trust and loyalty. It was a good decision in breaking up with your bf and you shouldnt fret over the lose of your friendship with your friend also. you doesnt deserve her as a friend because she betrayed you. I dont have a story like you, because once my man and my friend are having an affair in my back, i would surely slap the both of them.

I’m with spidercrown. I haven’t really experienced it but I’m totally freaked that it might happen to me. That’s why I keep my boyfriend and my friends separate. I don’t allow just three of us to go out and if ever my boyfriend had to meet with my friends, it has to be in a big group. I think I’m being paranoid but I’ve heard a lot of people who went through the same thing. It would hurt me a lot if it happened to me because those are the two most trusted persons in your life and they betrayed you. I hope you will find a better boyfriend than your ex and I hope that you can have another best friend who will be much more loyal to you.

Oh im sorry to hear that. everything that has happen has it's purpose. If something has taken from you im sure there's someone better coming from you. At least you have learned a lesson from that experience and somehow you grow up. Perhaps both of you is not really meant for each other.

9 years is a pretty long time. i guest love will find you when you least expects it. i have never experience what you have experience with you bf, but i do have a relationship before that took me 4 years to get over with. and i suspect she have been seing a guy behind my back. although that is not the main reason why we broke up. i'm married now, currently not happy because of some misunderstanding, but i plan on fixing it.

Sorry to hear that. I don't have such experience but i really afraid such thing will happen to me. I always wonder how will I react if it really does. Life goes one. You'll find the right one very soon.

My ex and I were together for 6 years before things changed sour and we broke up. At the end of it all, she told me that she was already attracted to someone else and things were coming together. That really hurt, and it still affects me when I think about it.

Sorry you had to go through that. I've had a best friend get with my boyfriend but it was right after we broke up. She actually went after 2 f my ex's and got with them both. She didn't try anythin while we were together but as soon as we were over she pounced on them.