I always have an argument with mom. Cold War. I cannot stand with this.

Sometimes im having argument with my mom too but not the same with your situation. For example She keeps telling me that im too young to be married and that is very hard. that is should work first and help them. Even if im married now, i still hear things like that to her. so annoying.

Uh uh, I don't think I like the situation. I mean, I love my Mom so much, she's the best in the world, I cannot imagine us in that situation. Hmmm, why the sudden change in the atmosphere. Are you in some kind of transition? Did you just grew up from a adolescent to adulthood? Did someone moved in the house? Moved out the house? Something new in your life that could have affected your communication? Because if these things never happened before, it would be weird to think it's happening now without something triggering it at first. To solve that problem, you should think if the core reason why this is happening, when did it all started. Maybe your Mom has been asking you questions before that you take in normally but you don't find it normal now because you "think" she's asking too much, but why? Why the sudden change? And why do you think your mom is "suspecting" now? I'm really certain you need to start from the roots of this problem... Good luck, may you patch things up with your Mom, parents are so delicate in their old age you know....

Sorry I have never been in this kind of situation. It sounds like a hard thing to cope with. Is it possible she has developed some kind of problem and needs professional help?

How old is your Mom? Was she like this before? Maybe she's going through menopause. This is a very complicated phase for our Moms because they themselves can't understand what's going on with them. Maybe we should just stretch our patience a little bit.