a lesbian courted you....
By clarah_cille
@clarah_cille (654)
Philippines
6 responses
@drizzle_anne (381)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
i dont at all, ill give her a chance.. was a straight when i met my gf got experiences with men but my relationship with a les is the best. :P
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@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
well, its your choice and we respect that. other women really feel secure with lesbian because they say that lesbian value more their special someone and take care so much of their relationship and will do everything to make things alright.
@whiteheather39 (24403)
• United States
19 Apr 07
I certainly would not be insulted I would take as a compliment that the person found me attractive enough to try to court me. I would let them know I was straight but a friendship would not be out of the question.
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@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
yeah, you should appreciate it for she kinda find you attractive. its nice of you to befriend her while others would change their attitude after the confession.
@ScarletAlston (2693)
• United States
19 Apr 07
I would feel kind of strange about it, but at the same time, special because that means not only do I have guys interested in me, but other females are taking notice as well..I would tell her I'm straight and mean no offense by saying I am not interested...
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@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
19 Apr 07
i would say that it will be a compliment....hehe...but then i don't have any experience on that. Instead of leading 'her' on and avoiding her, i think the best way would be to tell her outright that I'm not interested in this kinda relationship....
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@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
yes, i think that's the best way...to tell her straight but in a nice way that you're not into that kind of relationship but you can still be friends with her. its really not fair that after the confession, you'll avoid her because she'll be hurt. letting her understand everything would be the best option.
@nkkyluv (83)
• Nigeria
19 Apr 07
I've had this experience before, she's my friend and all along i didnt know she is a lesbian, one night she told me how she wanted me & all that, i nicely & politely told her i'm very straight, she felt bad about it but it didnt affect our friendship in any manner whatsoever.
@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
good to hear that your frienship was not affected at all after she confessed her feelings towards you. good luck then to your friendship and hope it will lasts longer.
@nadinetuazon (3)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
Try taking it as a compliment. Then decide whether you're actually really straight or not. If you are straight, then just tell her that..in a nice way of course. But if you're having doubts about your own gender..well..
