my effort seems neglected

They say if you love someone just set him free and if he came back it was meant to be. A nice part of a song. But to the one who truly madly in love why should one let go of her/his love. I know how much you love your BF, he is very lucky in having you as his love or GF, if i were in his shoes i will reciprocate what you have done for him. He should think this over and over again. I am just wondering why inspite of all the cares and good things you have done to him and in order to save your relationship still it seems he dont care about it.Maybe you can also think this over and over again also. or Maybe you should talk to each other and tell him thats it better for the two of you to have a cool off period, temporary break to ask each of yourselves if you really love each other. Tell him how you felt when you are doing everything for your relationship, if he really love you he should understand your feeling, ask him straight from your heart if he still love you. Maybe thats the thing i will do if i will be on your situation. You are the one who will decide on it.

dont hold on for something that is not worth for it. so i guess its better for you to let go if that would set you free from that hurt feeling. I guess too much expectation too is ver painful. What i mean to say is when you expect a lot from your boyfriend that he will return back the same thing that you have given to him, of course it hurts when he didnt able to meet your expectation. Too much love will kill you as they often say. so its better to give only enough not too much so you will have the balance.

in a relationship, its always give and take, if you are the one who is always giving and him not returning, then you better think of the future, like when you get married to him. i know you love your bf so much and you are doing everything to make him happy, but you must also think of your self. you are still young and you can still meet more people out there. i am not saying that you should break up with him, just give him something to think about, and that is you. it should not always be about him.

Real love must be based on two things: good relationship and good mutual attraction to each other. no one will ever give u the medal of honor if u stick to him even if he does not appreciate you or understands you. at the end you waste valuable time -yours and eventually HIS. I am sure that there is some guy out there perfect for you. :))