what is fair for us and our partner

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I have been placed in a serious dilemma in my life .It is a question I have not found the answer. If you have been with your partner for many years and you are not in love with him anymore how should you react? Should you keep your mouth closed,pretending that you love him ,use your reason and mind for the rest of your life just because you do not want to hurt him? or should you be sincere and open up your heart ,tell him the truth and face the consequences. Has anybody found the right answer to such a dilemma? If you are not with the one you trully love then you will suffer for the rest of your life but you won't have hurt your partner. If you are with your lover ,then you will be happy for ever but you may hurt your partner The question is the following. What do you think it is a fair solution for everybody?Has anybody an answer?Please ..... In all my life I always did what made other people happy.I was not fair to myself at all.Should I continue to be like that and suffer? I am so happy I can talk to people in this forum. Is woman's appearance important for man? last week, one of my friend asked me to introduce a girlfriend to him.so i asked him what kind of girl did he like .he said " beautiful" then i replied: "others?" he said: " nothing else" i was mazed then ,so i want to know " is woman's appearance important for man"?