Do you tell all your secrets to your new found love?

@Netmoney (144)
United States
April 19, 2007 10:27pm CST
Is it important to tell all your secrets to a new found love even if you know those secrets will be hurtful? Or do you keep some things private and insist they do not need to know? Have you had an experience with this you care to share?
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
20 Apr 07
I have learnt from past experiences that you always keep some things to your self, it is wonderful being in a relationship you feel safe and everything is wonderful but, as I have learnt when the relationaship ends God forbid sometimes people who you never thought would tend to talk about things in revenge I think...so I say never ever give up all your secrets some things is best to stay in your private little inner vault....
@Netmoney (144)
• United States
20 Apr 07
I never considered black mail as a reason to keep quiet. I have to assume I can trust the person firstly and for them to go behind blabbing AFTER a relationship would be completely insulting. Did you tell at the beginning of your relationship? I don't know if you were married, but do you think that makes a difference?
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• Philippines
20 Apr 07
I only tell my secrets to my best friend and to my true friends. I analyze their attitudes and characters first before I divulge to them my secrets.
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
Probably it depends nor it takes time to tell all your secrets. Findly hard to trust somebody even it's your loveone. At first, I must say that firmly have your reservation on yourself and keep still whatever it is. Have your way to weigh things out and if it is the right time to impart it to your partner why not hesitate to share it with him. Just in time, to be sure enough and not regret things that might happens. It's not that you don't love your partner for not telling him secrets within yours but this is the fact, a well evaluated thinking that you could relied on to be better not only to other's, love partner especially as individual category. It might be difficult somehow responses good and safest.