Which is more painful..??

Philippines
April 19, 2007 10:31pm CST
Which is more painful to know that hes cheating on you?.or to know that he finds someone new but you are aware that he still loves you and you loves him too.Do you find it more painful the latter?.Give ur opinions and views.
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Babyzey
@Babyzey (21)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
i think the former is more painful than the latter. The fact that he still loves you (the latter case) will lessen the pain regardless of the fact that he has found somebody else. You still have his heart in that case.
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fairygreen
@fairygreen (533)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
Yes its more painful for me too..Knowing that it will still going to work out for the both of you.And if you found out that youll be more happier with each other.
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Shaunee
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
20 Apr 07
I found it more painful later. I sort of knew my ex husband was cheating on me. I mean all of the times he would leave to go see his friends and lie and say it was a friend from work he was going to hang out with. I mean for for over 6 months. I wish it had of been sooner but know I am glad it has happened and I know the truth.
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danishcanadian
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
20 Apr 07
My boyfriend knows what it's like to be cheated on, and he promised he'd never get into that situation again, and he promised he'd never cheat on someone he loves (he hasn't yet! He never cheated on his ex) so that is one thing we won't have to worry about. If someone chats, they lie when they say they love you, because if they loved you enough, they wouldn't even think of cheating!