Are you gonna stay to the one you love or the one who loves you?..
By fairygreen
@fairygreen (533)
Philippines
April 19, 2007 10:44pm CST
Are you gonna stay to the one who loves you most, or are you coming back to the one you love?.Me i would prefer to stay with the one who loves me most.Because i would feel secure in that statement.Anyways, we could always teach a heart as long as the person is good to us.
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@jcvernz (477)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
I have been in that situation when i met this certain guy at the 4th year of my present relationship. He is a nice guy, chinito, good looking... as if he was a man of my dreams to consider.I was attracted to him and likewise he do also since he courted me and we started to know each other.But i never give him a chance because im a one woman one man in having relationships.We departed our ways but after 6 years as if thing are destined to be we met again, and as if the feelings for both of us is still alive and kicking...(lol). This time i was torn between...do i have to hold on to the one who loves me or to give a chance to the one i love because eversince i have this feeling of loving him more than my present relationship. I came to the point that im willing to give up my present relationship. But making decisions is not that easy...i have to think of it a thousand times...i have to consider things not just for my sake but for others also.Until i finally decided to stay with the one who loves me because like you i felt more secure, cared, and loved than starting another relationship that im not so sure what went through.Though the process was so painful in letting him go but things will be fine in a right time.
@fairygreen (533)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
Yes i agree with you jcverns,its not that easy.Making decisions involves a lot of time to think, emotions as well, and risk.Falling inlove means taking risk too.But we should favor more what makes us truly happy but this doesnt mean that we have to settle for anything less.We just wanted to be more secured, cared and refined.Anyways wound can be healed at times.
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@calvinzeng (34)
• China
20 Apr 07
i agree with you.any wound will be healed in a right time.We should cherish what we own now.Stick to it and life will be enjoyable as well even you lose the one you love deeply.
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
i will stay to the one's who love me,because i know they will take good care of me and will be keeping me safe coz they love me.
