D you believe in.. "if you really love him/her, let him go"

Certainly... because if they are not happy then why be with someone who you don;t make happy. Also when you finally "let him/her go" an interesting thing begans to happen. You're actually allowing them to grieve and in the grieving process they began to focus on all the good times that were shared and then began to wonder if they want to leave. So really its giving them time to figure out what they want and if they do decide to go so be it that person wasnt meant for you. However in most cases they will return to you. If you love someone who wants to be free. set them free and they will return to hold on to them may actually destroy any chances of survival with the relationship.

Yeah...i belive in that...because im such a person.I always want to see him happy if he is happy in leaving me them i will let him go...distance will not be an obstacle between us.I have given him place in my heart and from there he cant go anywhere else....

I'll say that's the way to do it. Let go and then learn from it. We can never move on in life if we don't let go of the past.

it's not so so logical to do it, because if you love the person i believe it's best to show it by standing by her/his side and show him that you'l;l never leave no matter what.