Loving completely..

hmm.. i think your question is very difficult.. its hard to love completely because only you can complete yourself..so as far as i know, you have to love yourself first..know whats good for you and know what really really makes you happy..then that is the time that you can love completely.. and of course when you love, you're expecting the same with your partner..you also want to be loved completey because you want to feel the kind of love that you're giving out to the world..^_^

me, sometimes, i dont care if my bf dont love me completely, what really matter is i do love the person completely..yes, i'm a fool lady when it comes to love and i dont care coz i want to feel like this, i'm happy that they can feel that i do love them..it's not right i know because i need to have something in my self, that i need to respect my self, but how can i do that, if i love the person i do everything for him..

Firstly I agree with another comment - I don't think it is possible to love someone else completely. For me the issue is why does it have to be one or the other. Of course we all want to be loved, but surely our partner also has the right to feel that it is reciprocal and that we love them as much as they love us. To only focus on loving someone else can be bad, it can make you a doormat if the other takes advantage or it can make you lead a miserable life if you feel that the other person is just being a taker and you are always being a giver. On the other side focusing on just being loved makes you a very selfish individual. I don't think either of these situations are examples of healthy relationships. Like everything else in life there should be a balance.