have u ever experienced the coulda, woulda, shoulda feeling?

Philippines
April 20, 2007 9:16am CST
i met a guy four years ago and fell for him. he tried to befriend me but i kept on avoding him. not until he was gone (studying in another university) did i realize that i loved him and still loving him until now. i keep on thinking on what could, would and should happen if i did not act that way.
5 responses
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
11 Aug 10
Well really romantic and strength of their true love.
@jacki3 (136)
• United States
27 Apr 07
there must have been a reason why you avoided him in the first place. maybe you didn't feel that he was just right for you. everyone fears regret the most, it's the one thing that will bug us until our dying day.
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
well, regrets always come in the end. what you're gonna do now is to tell him about how you feel. or at least be friend him first and handle the feelings later. do one step at a time! guess it's never too late for anything! be true to yourself and fight for that feelings! that's the only way i know how to do it. and to do it right. and when you do it..and get rejected at least then you wont be thinking of the what ifs.. could have, would have, should have..:)
@lithsue (45)
• Philippines
22 Apr 07
honestly, in cases like this we could always try to make up for the opportunities we've lost.. why not get in touch through email or phone or whatever? however if your nerves wont allow you to do that then i guess you'd just have to live with the fact that perhaps you really did let the love of your life get away.. the lesson? think and rethink 100 million times on our actions because once its done we cant turn back time anymore...
@cutiedhes (507)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Yes I do experienced that feeling, I have met this guy by a common friend before we are never that close until after my birthday that we both dumped by the persons we like and that was the start that we became friends. We talk everyday talk always over the phone visits my house and talk over our own love lives but both of us have no feelings for each other. Until one day when he told me that he is about to go to other country to live there for good and to continue his studies there suddenly i realized that i feel something special for him but i kept it because I don't to want ruin our friendship and i don't want him to avoid me. Until one day I just heard from my friend that he has gone and went to Canada then i felt really sad knowing that he even not tell me that time was his flight. I have thought of things like that what if I have confess to him what would rather happen with us, what if he feel the same way too..