Friendly People Vs Pretender

Malaysia
April 20, 2007 12:01pm CST
today topic is friendly people vs the pretender.. so.. how many of you actually thinks yourself as friendly type of person? or. how many pretenders out there? i've seen many people.. with smilling .. they talk as friendly as possible.. but.. are they really friendly or are they pretenders? how do we differentiate them? let's give an example.. i've seen people with normal discussion.. but the post in that discussion is extremely high.. maybe 40? mayb 100? and the one with good discussion actually got only 5 - 10 responses.. what is happening around here? is this happening because they're friendly? i do have friends in college that are pretenders.. they talk nice to you .. but .. you wouldn't want to know what they say behind you.. sometimes they can really backfire you and people actually believing pretenders more than you.. how do you handle such situations? :)
2 responses
@Odinxz (30)
• Malaysia
28 Apr 07
this is a really good topic. in my opinion.. its hard to find true good friend.. but pretender... a millions is out there... and i found those so-called "fake friends"... even more... beware when they said that they'll help u o so watever... DTT!! (Dont Trust Them)... ^.^..
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• Malaysia
28 Apr 07
true.. if you've been into working environment.. it's so common for you to meet them each day.. and i think you should learn to differentiate between the true friend and the fake one.. just becareful .. don't trust anyone until you see that they help you when you're in difficulties =)
@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
20 Apr 07
Oh I certainly am a very friendly person, I really dislike people that are fake and pretend to be friendly, I think that you have to be careful if you do not know the person whether they are really friendly or not. But I like to be myself and true to my friends. If I find that my friend is not really my friend then I am sorry but that friendship would be over before they could close their eyes.