Love Pain can make us smart?

Philippines
April 20, 2007 12:13pm CST
When i been at australia for vacation i found my first love, we go out together and do some stupid things together,sharing our sweet moments and sharing some dreams together. When i come back in the philippines coz my tourist visa was end, we have a very nice conversation on that time, evryday he ring me in me phone just to talk and fill the emptiness felt inside. And after a month, i heard from my uncle that he had another gurl there, It was very painful and i dont know what will i do just to forget everything. THen it come the time that i should make a decision between us, so i broke up him. And now If someone will court me i just igore to them and smart to choose a man whom who doesnt do to hurt me. I go on net just to look for my ryt one, and evytym some man says i love you and some sweet moments i feel like nothing and says boys are not safe to belive. Thats why I choose the ryt one just to not be hurt at the second tym around. Ill be thankful that, the kind of situatuin i been too was made a meduim for me to become strong and smart to choose to be my ryt one. Before i was not too strong and smart to choose a guy, as long as i like him then thats it, but now i learn and become smart. Will you agree with me guys?c'mmon and lets make a discusssion.
2 responses
@babs0818 (1191)
• United States
20 Apr 07
A heartache will definitely make you stronger....
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@Maxturvy (114)
• Philippines
4 May 07
"Experience is the best teacher." is the maxim I always remember from my teacher whom I owed a lot during my high school days. This really applies to everyone and from your story, I knew it you will be immune from many flatters and alibis.Closing yourself from loving is not good for a lady like you. You must open it again to give way for happiness and your future life.Learn from what you have experienced and then make a smart decision. Will it be your heart to prevail or your mind? You are the one who molds your life and choose your path. Remember, life is what we make it.You are a smart gal and I knew you will surpass all the tests.