just reflecting
By chesssy
@chesssy (203)
Philippines
April 20, 2007 10:23pm CST
i missed mylot!! i've been out for vacation but here i am now.
while on vacation, i was given a chance to reflect on the things happening in my life. to say the least, i'm happy with the relationships i have now. all are meaningful and with a lot of respect towards each other. but is it normal to feel consumed and used by these people? i mean, i feel that everyone always asks me if they need something, like i'm the go to girl for the things they lack or the things they don't know. and i can't say no.
how do i change this? :(
1 response
@asteriskec (1074)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
There's no other way to do it but to really be firm and say no. It's really all up to you. If you give in and refuse to say no, then things will just go on and on and on. Besides you can always say no in a nice, reasonable manner in such a way that it won't cause misunderstanding between you and your friend/s.
