Did you ever get so mad here that you answered by one word:Yes????

@liranlgo (5752)
Israel
April 20, 2007 10:41pm CST
The last few days i did not have much time spending here on mylot, most of the day i was outside the house, doing all sort of things, mainly going to this course i have started. So when i opened up my email box, i had about 80 email notifications of discussion started by mylot users. The first reaction was: Yaai i do not have to look for posts in the website, they are all in front of me, all i got to do is open the email post and respond. But when i did, all of my good mood and motivation went down. I tackled across so many posts that had a yes or no question, that i did not see any other choice that responding with a yes or no response. But because that is against all rules of a normal discussion, i decided to let go and just erase the post from my email. Now i am asking you did you ever get so mad seeing those kind of posts that you wanted to respond with only one word: Yes or NO? Did you eventually do so? or did you just erase the post and moved on?
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19 responses
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
21 Apr 07
yes/no discussions - forget about yes/no discussions and move on
Hello,liranlgo, I have seen some of the yes or no questions in my email notification,I think you do not have to care much about it as you still have alot of good discussions in your inbox,do not get upset when you see these posts,just ignore it and omve on to the good ones, that is what i do at least. Anyway work hard on the good ones then..:)
@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
21 Apr 07
That is exactly what i am doing easy:) but it somtimes gets me so mad, that people that easily open up those posts. Don't they have any honour for themselfs? It is like wasting a good paper for nothing. Lol.
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• Singapore
21 Apr 07
Close enough. I don't think I did a one-word (I might, not sure). However, I sure have done one line ones before. I was so mad, so p*ssed, so everything. I just couldn't be bothered anyway.
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@feralwoman (2199)
• Australia
21 Apr 07
I like to work from my inbox and open discussions from there too. If I come across a yes or no discussion, then i'll just delete it and move on. I hate answering with just one word - it's useless and unhelpful. lol
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@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
21 Apr 07
You are absolutely right!
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
21 Apr 07
I jus ignore posts like that. They dont maeke me mad coz I know they will probably get erased anyways. I do belive that there are many posts like that though, but thye also do not get good responses =)
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@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
21 Apr 07
I am not really sure about that marie, you'll be suprised how many people do respond to those posts.
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@Fishmomma (11377)
• United States
21 Apr 07
I receive a large number of e-mails and answer the quality questions first. If there aren't enough questions asked by my friend list, then I go to my interests. This normally keeps me quite busy. Any day I have extra time, I visit the new member and questions with no responses, as we all needed help when we started.
@Fishmomma (11377)
• United States
21 Apr 07
Sorry I didn't answer the question and don't get mad just move on to the next question.
@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
21 Apr 07
Thank you fishmomma:)
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@healwell (1268)
• Ahmedabad, India
21 Apr 07
Well liranlgo, I just follow one thing: If I have time then i will post otherwise what are my first choice responces? I will look for those and then posting few responces.May be 2 or 3 only but it is ok to me! Why to rush for posting and say yes or no? I have written 3 or 4 responces with one or two lines because it was really needed to respond that way! And on internet, no need to get mad! It's all smooth going!
@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
21 Apr 07
ok:)
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
27 Apr 07
LOL, I do know what you mean! When I got back from a week away you can imagine my inbox was bursting at the seems, I had pages of notifications from my friends and like you find it easier to use the notifications for responses than trawling through the site looking for them. If I find one of those 'yes or no' responses then I will simply delete them (the discussion) and move on. I have never replied with just a yes or no because it's the way I am, it's far easier to skip the discussion my friend!
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@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
27 Apr 07
Yes it is, isn't it? we are very similiar here wolfie:) i guess i will go now to my email, i have 120 mails from mylot, and can't wait to start and answering you all..Lol:) hope there are not alote of yes or no's posts:)
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
21 Apr 07
First, no...I have never responded with one word responses. I know it is something that is against guidelines here and I work too hard to avoid doing anything that will make me loose points, earnings, or be banned. I need my pennies! LOL So, if there is a discussion that asks for a yes or no response, those are against guidelines also. And I will report it. Along with any one word or one line answer. It is not fair to us that work so hard and spend at least 5 minutes typing up a response and another gets credit for a one second word response! At that point, I will be on a reporting spree for the next several minutes. We have to remember, those responses actually steal money away from us. If everyone would report those responses and they were deleted, the money that was earned for that day would be put back into the pot and re-distributed. This is why you might see your earnings go up by a few pennies here or there on some days. :) But no, I will not respond with one word because I would be doing what I report others for. Practice what you preach, right? :)
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@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
No, I don't reply to those kinds of posts. Since I came here, I stick to responding with less than 3 sentences long. I avoid these types of discussions, because as what we all know, this will then be deleted sooner or later. But if ever I see some of my friends post this stuffs, I let them be too. Maybe give them a chance, but if they repeat it, I will automatically delete them on my list. I don't respond to posts that requires a yes or no, enumerations and selecting between to subjects, because I don't think it is helpful to this site..
@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
21 Apr 07
I agree with you, i also react this way.
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@marlyse (1056)
• Switzerland
27 Apr 07
yes its true, there are lots of these here in the last time. i just ignore them and move to the next. sometimes i think, people do not read the guidelines, are lazy or do not understand the system here. but i have to admit that i get mad when i come across of to many of them. in this case i logout and return later. lol
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@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
27 Apr 07
Lol marlyse, i do the same;)
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
25 Apr 07
I think... even if a post is such like that you can reply in 'yes' or 'no'... if I decide to reply to it... I like to be little bit... or as far as possible...descriptive in my reply. Otherwise...if I do not have time... I just do not attempt a reply. Becuase whenever I start a discussion... I love to read a descriptive reply... not 'yes' or 'no'. In nutshell, either I do not reply at all to a discussion... or if I reply... I try to be descriptive.
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
28 Apr 07
I do not get mad because I will find a way to respond other than a Yes or No. If there is no way I can do it, I will just give it a miss. Not worth generating high blood pressure for oneself :P
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@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
28 Apr 07
I totally agree with you on this one;)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
so far i havent encounter like your experience but i do understand your feeling as if that the reason they respond is only for money, well i know we all go for money thats why we answer post but it more refreshing to know that other share their own sentiments,views and ideas
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@jimvien (60)
• China
22 Apr 07
i get too much email from mylot everyday,even i have too much time to read them.so i just read some and erase others, i think i have to.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
25 Apr 07
no
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
28 Apr 07
how can i scare you sweetie??
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
25 Apr 07
if you thought i just dropped in and left, then you are wrong my friend. now, bear with my garrulosity.... i have never done that. if i have a response that better be a descriptive, thoughful one than a YES or a NO. a YES or a No might have greater significance in other spheres in life but as in here it's a zilch, both qualitatively and lucratively. hope you got my point. cheers.....
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@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
26 Apr 07
Wow. You scared me for a second mimpi. I did not expect this from you, but i did have a smile on my face when i saw you continued..:)
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@gemini1960 (1161)
• Philippines
22 Apr 07
in my duration here as a member i havent read on my discussions a yes or no yet, but if i seen one in the near future i just shrugged my shoulders and erase it too.
@aprilgrl (4460)
• United States
21 Apr 07
Come to think of it I don't think I had any of those discussion in my email from yes or no it would be really dumb just ay yes alone or no it just don't make sense
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• Canada
21 Apr 07
I used to think it was easier to jsut ignore those kinds of posts but now i think i should start to report them and becoem a member of the MLPD other wise there gets to be so much junk on here but then again i have had several removed becasue people did not agree with what I was posting it really a no win situation for me.
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@mdarma (868)
• Singapore
25 Apr 07
Fortunately, I have not reacted with one word. If and I have read respond that has no relevant to the discussion, I just move on to the next.
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