how much time do u think is enough for stopping loving someone?
By vincebeorc
@vincebeorc (6)
China
April 21, 2007 11:16am CST
i have chased a girl for 3years. she was my girlfriend. back then we broke up for some stupid reason. however i still love her. the feelings become more and more strong. therefore i decide to chase her despite the fact that i am in shanghai and she is in beijing. yesterday she told me she would go to America. i am at a loss.... do u think it's time to move on?
2 responses
@monkeykingaround (896)
• United States
22 Apr 07
That's so sad. I haven't actually love someone before like you do, so I don't know how to act in your situation. Ideally for me, if I were to love someone I will always love him no matter what. But you guys broke up, and she is going to be thousands of miles away so it is time to move on. It's not good to have a one way relationship.
I am not the one to give advice about something I have no experience on. Maybe you should go with your heart. Whatever it said do it. Or maybe you should listen to your brain. I don't know. ^_^
@vincebeorc (6)
• China
22 Apr 07
thank u for yr suggestion. i think maybe i am a little bit insane now. maybe i need a little time to think it through.
@biznizman01 (581)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
3 years is awefully long time in pursuing someone. does she respond to you in anyway? does she feels the same way about you?
maybe going to america was her way of telling you to stop chasing her. asked her if the two of you still have a chance as a couple. if she said no, then mourn for your loss and move on. if she said yes, then wait for her until she returns.
