How do you win a womans heart?
By cheenlly
@cheenlly (3476)
Philippines
April 21, 2007 8:24pm CST
Hey guys! i know different people have different way of showing there love. Can you share your experience on how did you win your wife, girlfriends heart? how did you make them say yes? what did you do? how did you court her? and for the gals, you could also share how did your boyfriend or husband win your heart. Oh ..its a very wonderful memories to reminisce that time. Oh! is it romantic? Oh could you still remember how it feels? I hope this would make you all smile remembering those times. Thanks
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13 responses
@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
22 Apr 07
Well my husband won my heart by the way he was so thoughtful in regards to how I felt and what I wanted to do, he did not smoother me and used to give me space to do what I wanted to do and he was not possessive as some guys are as I believe every relationship needs to be able to trust each other along with being faithful and true to me, it is wonderful to reminisce over the time when we first fell in love, yes I can still remember how it feels and yes it sure does put a smile on my mind remembering those first days and I shall always carry them in my heart and mind.
@fellowlife (988)
• Nigeria
22 Apr 07
i won my girlfriend heart by showing her i cared without making it look like i was involved in her. She just went through a major heathreak when i met her and i provided her a shoulder to cry on and i didnt tale advantage of her cause she was weak and was lost but i helped her build back her confidence and made her trust in herself until she was able to stand out again like her usual self.
So one day she came to my house ans she was like she wanted to reward me by giving me her heart since she knew i was after her heart afterall and i said yes,lol
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@atenibuboy (71)
• Philippines
22 Apr 07
if you truly want to win a woman's heart, be that kind of man she always wanted. Be caring, thoughtful, responsible and understanding. Most women go after guys with good personalities rather than those with just pretty faces.
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@asmurthy (2461)
• India
22 Apr 07
If she needs someone to read her mind she is going to be looking for an awful long time.
You can only be yourself ... make her laugh ... gain her trust ... and love her for who she is ... beyond that it is all up to her!
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
22 Apr 07
To win a woman heart, it may not be that difficult , that is why sometimes a guy can have alot of partner even he is not really handsome like david beckham. he just knows the skills to win a woman's heart.
I will be attracted to a guy who is nice and caring with good personality.May be a guy can call the woman once or twice a day and show his care to her,or sending SMS to ask what she is doing,once a woman can feel that he is a good guy,she will be attracted to him.
Of course ,different women will be attracted to different men,but a man can win a woman 's heart if he knows what a woman is looking for in particular.
@vamisola (905)
• Australia
22 Apr 07
My wife asked me to respond to this :) Well, I guess that first of all you need to be yourself. No point in (temporarily) trying to be someone you are not to just to impress her because eventually you will let your guard down. She needs to see you for who you are so that she can fall in love with you.
So, that's what I did :)
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@navtech (1773)
• India
22 Apr 07
When I 21 years old, I was attracted to a girl whom I thought would marry and lead a happy life. Then I found she is already married. Subsequently after 4 years, after the first failure, I saw a girl whom I thought would be suitable to be life partner. Ultimately I married her. I never had the opporunity to win woman's heart.
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@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
22 Apr 07
Well, Cheenly, I did everything I could to win a girl heart. Still, it wasn't enough. I was myself, I always care for her, tried to help her, talked to her, asked for her help, was gentle... She still doesn't love me.
She is now avoiding me.
The last thing I can do is go and talk to her on Monday. This story can have a Happy End, by the first time on my life. Or, it could just be a mess, wich would hurt me even more...
If I can do it, I'll tell you the key to win a woman heart. Believe me, if I win her heart, I can do anything. She is one of the most beautiful girls in my college, and I love her for what she is inside. "Give up, it's impossible" - my friends said.
We'll find out.
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@dozenbiz (88)
• Philippines
22 Apr 07
I'd never courted my wife because she was my best friend. we go out all the time to do extra curricular activities during our modular class.
Until one day I said to her I will get married and I want you to marry me. then she replied Ok. Then that's it. We live a happy life.