How do you respond to your spouse when....
By shorva
@shorva (923)
Philippines
April 21, 2007 9:27pm CST
..he wakes you up at night to make love? Last night my hubby woke me up again and tried to seduce me, again, and I rejected him again! He just never learned, I already told him that I don't want to be bothered when I'm asleep. I get annoyed and cranky because you can't expect me to be all energetic and romantic right up. I get up twice at night to change my baby's diaper and give her milk, so sleep is very precious to me. Am I selfish?
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@carolynpb (647)
• United States
26 Apr 07
I most times respond just like you. Once I am asleep I don't want to be disturbed. It's so hard for me to get to sleep, I get mad if woken up. If I'm in the mood an occasional wake in the night is good. I don't think you are selfish. With a baby you really need your sleep. He needs to pick a better time to make love.
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@patricia24 (568)
• Philippines
22 Apr 07
I think yes, because you're married now and you have an obligation to your husband and in your baby. But you must talk to your husband too, about your situation. Dont be so selfish that everytime your husband wake you up for s*x you always reject him. Understand his needs like you understand the needs of your baby.
@amydawn11 (906)
• Canada
22 Apr 07
I don't think your selfish. I hate getting woken up and I also get really cranky. It must be a guy thing cause mine does it to.
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