What I advise him.
By navtech
@navtech (1773)
India
April 21, 2007 11:26pm CST
My friend who is only 26 years old. He is just like a son to me. He is well educated and good mannered. Yesterday, while talking he said he had fallen in love with a girl with whom he has been going steadily for the last 1 year. Further he said that she considers him a good friend as he has found out from her behaviour. He asked me to talk to her about his love. Should I talk to her or should I not do it. Please advise.
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6 responses
@lilac04 (73)
• Philippines
22 Apr 07
Talk to your friend, advise him that it is only he/him who can make the move besides he has been going steady with this girl for a year. Its a personal affair between them, it hard to be a labeled "nosy". I'm sure he will be able to do it his own way.
@navtech (1773)
• India
22 Apr 07
Hi, lilac04, thank you for your comments. Actually I do not want to get involved in the love affairs but at the same time I also want to help him. That is why I brought this matter to discussion to know how I should act and take decision on this matter. I have received lot of responses wherein people advised me to ask my friend to take initative to get the matter settled between them.
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
22 Apr 07
Quite often men fear telling the women he loves about how he feels because she may run away or it will change the relationship forever. If he needs you to tell her how he feels this is the case. He has no idea what she feels for him. Frindship sure but is there more.
My guess is she is not attracted to him romanticaly. He would know that if she was. I think be hopes that with you telling her how he feels that she will take it much better.
I can't tell if your a woman or man but if your a women explain to him what it means if she is not attracted to him. If he still wants you to tell her then by all means yes do so. Just prepare him for the let down before you do it.
@sheenshaukat (2617)
• Pakistan
22 Apr 07
he should not ask. he should fell in love. no question arises in love affair. love is blind.love is duny. love does not ask the question. love does not need advices. he should be replied that he should ask this question from his heart.
@charlestchan (1415)
• Malaysia
22 Apr 07
how old are you? are you close with the gurl that you just mentioned? i think .. it's okay for you to talk for him.. if you consider him as your close friend.. you should help him right? .. but do prepared for rejection because things are not always that perfect.. sometimes.. people might accept.. sometimes.. people might reject.. and worse still, his frienship with the girl might worsen if the girl didn't accept him.. this is a very common case.. and i believe you should first explain the consequences to your friend.. because .. if you don't.. he migh get hurt even more after knowing the truth.. well.. i don't know what will the outcome be.. but.. put some faith in it =)
@csatishbabu1970 (108)
• India
22 Apr 07
Its nothing wrong to give advises if he seeks your help provided he does not means that he loves you!!
