Our Bbq today with blood & vomiting!

@jennybianca (12912)
Australia
April 22, 2007 3:53am CST
This sounds like a gory title for a bbq with a friends, but you wouldn't believe what happened. We had invited friends (2 adults & 5 year old) to our place for a bbq lunch. The salad was made, a beautiful trifle for desert was created, & lots of meat was bought. As the weather was lovely, we set up the outdoor table. I put my lacy tablecloth on, & the plate settings, etc. We had three bottles of wine. Our friends arrived, & a great time was had by all. The kids played various games, we had the lunch & sat around drinking plunger coffee. The kids ( 4 of them ) were inside playing a board game when something went wrong. My 8 year old step daughter shook the dice in the glass too hard, & the glass flew out of her hand & smashed. My 13 year old step son picked up the glass & put it in the bin. My daughter came out & told me of this, & by then my step daughter was in her bedroom crying. The others had teased her, & told her off for breaking the glass, so she was sulking. No one paid any attention to this, so the crying became louder. Still no attention. The crying became hysterical. Then she ran outside & went right to the back of the yard, crying very loudly. Still no one paid her attention. At this point, she went inside & went balistic. She started vomiting. As she didn't try to make it to the toilet, she went to the rubbish bin, & this partly worked. Her Dad got her a bucket to vomit in. My visitors had come inside to help clear up dishes too & saw all this. In the midst of vomiting, my daughter called out.. "there's blood". Sure enough, there was a trail of blood going through the hall way & the family room. It was coming from her toe. There was quite a cut & bleeding was reasonably copious. As I dealt with the blood, & tried to stop the flow, clean the cut, & put bandages on, my husbanmd was dealing with the vomiting child, who then had realised that it was her broken glass that cut my daughters foot. After my husband had vaccumed the carpet & floor to remove all broken glass, everything calmed down. Fortunately my friends are broadminded, & tried to help with all these disasters. But it was a bit embarassing really, to come to a bbbq & be confronted with a hysterical child, vomit & a bloody cut toe. We had a few drinks!!!
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@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
23 Apr 07
Wow, that was a day. Kids do add a dimension to any gathering. The others that teased should be reprimanded. Also at the end did you mean a few more drinks? LOL Am glad you had a get together and your dealing calmly with things sure will make your guests have good memories despite the drama. I hope you get to go to anothers house for the next bar b que. Thanks for sharing.
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
23 Apr 07
Yes, I did mean a few more drinks..... How did you guess?
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• United States
22 Apr 07
What a day! but accidents happen such is life. You have made me curious what is plunger coffee?
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
23 Apr 07
Coffee Plunger - This is a 4 cup coffee plunger
We buy the coffee granules, usually Vittoria. Then you put a few spoonfulls in a jar type container. Bioling water is poured in it, up to near the top. Then a special lid, in the design of a plunger is put on the top. After a few moments, the plunger is depressed. After another 2 minutes the coffee can be poured. I will add a photo of one. You may know them by a different name.
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@shoelover (896)
• Australia
22 Apr 07
Well nobody can say you have a boring household. I am glad it all ended ok though. Maybe in future you could use a plastic cup for shaking the dice. I can't say I blame you for having a few drinks afterwards though lol. I would have to.
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@gapeach65 (805)
• United States
24 Apr 07
That sounds like quite a day. I hope after all of that everyone still had a nice time. If nothing else because everyone was together and there was "excitement". That will sure be a story worth talking about. I hope the children are all ok, sounds like they all went through quite an ordeal. I hope the drinks helped to relax the adults too, at least I hope it was only the adults drinking...lol...I bet the kids thought they could use one too after all of that (maybe just some lemonade for them though).
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@meholl (510)
• United States
26 Apr 07
I am sure that had someone went and told the child that it was ok that she had broken the glass and that it was an accident and all was fine, the vomitting may never have happened. And of course in her quest to get some validation is probably when she cut her toe. When a child's feelings are hurt it is up to us as parents to either ignore the child or validate that childs feelings and let them know that everything is still ok. I am sure that this childs feelings were certainly hurt, as you stated the other kids were teasing her... You or your husband should have talked to her before she became so increasingly upset that it resulted in vomitting. My goodness, after having such a display of uncaring for a child, I can't believe your friends stated for a few more drinks. I don't call that openmindedness. I call it ignorance on you and your husbands part. In your part of the world, sulking must be the same thing as being upset because someone was teasing and telling her off. I am glad you are over there and I am here, because I would personally tell you off myself for the way the whole situation was dealt with. To busy with your friends to comfort an 8 year old child that has accidently broken the glass and was made fun of. Shame on you for even posting this lack of concern for this child
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
27 Apr 07
Again, you misunderstood! It was my 14 daughter who cut her toe on the broken glass, not the 8 year old. It was the 8 year old who broke the glass in the first place. As you do not know the history of this child, acting inappropiately to get attention, you are not in a position to judge our actions. We believe it is best to give attention for positive behaviour, not negative behaviour. I think you are deliberately being negative & judgmental, because of your inaccurate responses to another discussion of mine.
@meholl (510)
• United States
27 Apr 07
I understand that I do not know your children, but I know that a child who has been berated by other family members and friends should be comforted by a parent regardless of there age, if their feelings were hurt. Why do I say this?? I have children as well that do just about anything to seek attention. But if another child has done or said something to hurt my childs feelings, I feel that the best course of action is to comfort the child and if it is one of my own children behaving in such a manner to cause distress to my child, to deal with that child in an appropriate fashion that they know it is not right to behave in that manner. You ignored a child that was not comfortable with the situation and the way she was being treated. In my world that is ignorance on the parents part regardless of whether it is an attention seeking child. But of course, this is only my opinion, which I have the freedom to express. I am not judging you, simply expressing my opinion and stating that I feel that some day you might make a difference in this childs life if you actually take the time to deal with the issues at hand instead of partying it up with your friends. Am I not entitled to have this opinion, if that is how I truly feel about what you posted????
@Woodpigeon (3710)
• Ireland
24 Apr 07
Holy crud! Are you ever goign to have another barbecue after that? That sounds pretty darned exciting! One of my kids flips out and gets a bit hysterical from time to time over very small and slly thngs. I am so glad vomitting hasn't occured to him!
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@GardenGerty (160663)
• United States
28 May 07
I am sure this discussion took place during one of my slack times. I think I would have had a few drinks myself, even if I do not drink. It was a disaster! I am sure that in future years it will be funny, but it must have had your head in a whirl that day. So was the vomiting just from getting upset, or was she ill, and that is why she was so tender to the teasing. This will be one you should journal about, for future generations.
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Accidents happen though how careful we may be. The child didn't like that to happen and to have a toe cut. People should be understanding of such situation as nobody likes to be under any undesirable circumstances. Well, anyway, the day went on which might be difficult to forget especially the one wounded.
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@Zloofah (83)
• United States
26 Apr 07
oh my gosh! that is an ordeal-things almost always get more interesting when children are involved. kids can be cruel to one another too which escalates the situation. I am glad to hear it wasn't worse than that-it could have involved the hospital emergency room. =)
• United States
23 Apr 07
oh wow..i think i'd be wanting a drink too LOL you gotta love kids..i hope you guys had a great bbq otherwise though :)
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