how can you please your husband?

well we dont know what happened so it is hard for anyone to help with there thoughts. i mean did you just not do something he wanted, cheat on him, break something, etc? alot depends on what you did. the best thing you can do though is talk to him. explain what you did and why. the only way to get to a middle ground is to talk. you have to meet halfway but i know i have upset my hubby and he has never left over it. we just talk about it and figure out what to do. if we cant talk we write to each other that way it is easier sometimes cause we can get everything out with out the other one interupting, or looking at us.

You have to sit down and have a serious discussion w this man Girl! if my man didnt come home for days id change the damn locks on him you let him get away with behavior like that hes going to do it again and again and come home w some std or get some other girl pregnant - am i being exagerated- no talk to him and find out whats the deal put him on a leash girl he has no respect for you dont think about pleasing him when until he has earned your respect. oh my goodness i have zero tolerance for behavior like that im quick to leave (temporarily) to see what hes going to do hmmmmmmm good luck girl

Well without you saying much its kind of hard to give suggestions BUT I will say that even if you did do something to tick him off, sounds to me like he's got you under his thumb which I personally think is wrong.....I mean is he not coming home BECAUSE he's mad at you? if thats the case I'd say "fine dont come home until you can grwo the hell up!" cause as far as I'm concerned that is childish behaviour