Do you celebrate the things you have already or complain about what u dont have?

@disvachic (10117)
United States
April 22, 2007 9:22am CST
I use to complain about all the things I dont have,but after a certain incident that happend in my life,it has turned my life around and I am grateful for all the things I have til this day.I want more and will have more but will not complain anymore.
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• United States
22 Apr 07
My husband and I usually pray and thank the Lord for all the blessings that he has given our family. Sometimes we take advantage of the things we have like shelter, food, clothing, health, money and etc. And not knowing that there are other people who needs this more than us. That is why sometimes we have to stop and take a look at our surroundings. There is more to life of the things we have and of the things yet to come.
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
22 Apr 07
I thank him to every single day for all my blessings.I also ask for other things but I dont complain anymore I really found out the hard way.I am grateful because things could be alot worse.
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
22 Apr 07
Hello,disvachic,I do not like to complain about anything, I do not mind if someone get soemthing but I do not, I am happy for who I am, I have something other people do not have,I do not need to compare with anyone and catch up with them. We should treasure what we have as it is a kind of luck for us to own what we have at this moment. I am satisfied for what I have now, complaining only make you feel bad. Good luck.
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
22 Apr 07
YOU said that so perfect.It does make you feel bad.I used not be jealous of someone,always felt happy for someone else.I used to complain about small stuff.My daughter spent the night over her friend house and this morning she called me bright and early asking me to pick her up.So I asked her why,and she said her friend did not have any food in the fridge.NOw you know I had to break it down to her.We are blessed ,some people dont have food to and you want to throw away food.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
27 Apr 07
good point shaneat! i don't have the habit of complaining about things i don't have. my life had a sudden 360 degrees turn around and i am thankful for everything. i grew up in a very poor family. and now, everything seems to be just brilliant. i am not saying that we are rich. all i am saying is that our lives changed a lot more than we have expected before. i always know that i can never have everything in the world. and so, i just dream and hope and wish and work for what i am wanting to have in my life. and i mean, work hard for them. if i don't get them, i don't complain. instead, i look deeper to see where i had gone wrong. and after knowing, i try to do better the next time. for the wonderful family where i belong, the beautiful friends who are always there for me, for people like you in myLot, and for my wonderful boyfriend who understands every single bit of me, i will forever be thankful and grateful for having them in my life. and well, i am happy for you! you now have a positive outlook in life... that's where it all begins. happy myLotting shaneat!
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
27 Apr 07
well, i love my family so much, my friends and my boyfriend. if they do appreciate me, more so, i appreciate their presence in my life. just like i appreciate friends like you in my life. we might not have met earlier, but i am glad that despite our busy lives, we still were able to be friends. we can make up for it anyway! hehe. oh, it's 10:30 pm here in the philippines. i am still awake. but i took a nap earlier for 3 hours. i am waiting for my boyfriend to be online. we will chat at around 2pm philippine time which is like 8pm in sweden. take care and hope to hear more from you again!
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
27 Apr 07
wow thats a huge time difference around that time I would be going to work.I work overnights.
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
27 Apr 07
Thank you.I am glad for you also.YOU are such an inspiring person and I am sure your friends and family appreciate you.I know that Im rich at HEART right about now, so no complaining for me anymore.I use to complain about every little thing but thease days I am grateful for the all things in my life and I will definitely continue working hard towards success. P.S. I dont know what time it is there,but here its 9:21am and I feel your happy ENERGY already !LOL take care!!!Very inspiring
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@teison2 (5921)
• Norway
22 Apr 07
I do not think I complain a lot about things I do not have. I complain more abour what i do have. Like health problems. Complaining does not do very much good either way. but sometimes life gets very tough and I believe it is sometimes good to curse the curses in ones life. Botteling it all up is not smart either
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
22 Apr 07
SO true if I complain about its not making things any better.I may want and can have those things,but at the same time still grateful for what I have already.
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@lightningMD (5931)
• United States
22 Apr 07
I celebrate the things I have. I am trying to teach this trait to my husband and daughter. Do not envy what others have,praise God that you have a family who loves you,food in your bellies, and a comfortable place to live. Others in this world do not have even these simple things.
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
22 Apr 07
MOst definitely!I am teaching my children the same thing.My son always complaing about a new game.I tell him some are not fortunate to have a game and be blessed for the games you have already.
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@semak76 (187)
• United States
22 Apr 07
We always want more, but if we view life as being thankful for what we do have, we will always be happier. I'm glad you have learned to see the glass as half full as opposed to half empty. give thanks every day for what you have, and you will never be wanting
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
22 Apr 07
Thankyou,I have noticed that things could be alot worse than what they are and I am really blessed!
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I try to think and live positively. I am thankful for what I have. Sure I want more, but mostly I am content with what I have. Life can be too short to think negatively. I do my best not to be a complainer about things and about life in general. Life is precious, we should all try to look at life as a gift.
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I thank God for each and everyday
@caribe (2465)
• United States
22 Apr 07
I celebrate the things I have because I have so much more than most of the people living around me here in Nicaragua. I am grateful for the things I have and when I think of not having something that I would like to have, I remember the people around me that have so little and yet are happy with their lives. I am grateful for a comfortable bed to sleep in and modern conveniences like a washer, refrigerator, and a cookstove with an oven. I didn't realize how much I and most Americans take for granted, things like a comfortable chair and a comfortable bed. I value them very highly now because I know what it is like not to have them.
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
22 Apr 07
Exactly!I try my best to teach my children that,because I found out the hard way.I have been through many struggles in my life and those things happened for a reason.Today I am grateful for the little things I have.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
22 Apr 07
now girl you know that i am proud of you. that is the way to think. complaining just get's you more things to complain about. being grateful for what you have will get you more thens to be grateful for. you rock girl!! you rock!
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
22 Apr 07
Thanks 34MA!I have been very grateful thease days and I am sorry I had to learn the hard way.You are so right just gives you more and more things..You rock to girl!Thanks!!
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@Stiffler07 (1356)
• United States
25 Apr 07
No, Complain about it just wouldn't work for me. I would celebrate what I do have, because only then will I be able to obtain what I don't. (Great Question)
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I use to complain all the time,but now its a whole new ball game.
• United States
27 Apr 07
I have been blessed with the things I have. I don't complain about what I don't have. When you take a look around and see the people that don't even have the everyday necessity's of life who am I to complain when I have everything I need and more.
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
27 Apr 07
Yes and its very sad.I hope people in a worse situation than me will be blessed.
@katzbee (91)
• Canada
24 Apr 07
I like your Philosophy. It is always better to rejoice about our achievements because they are always there with us, than to lament over our misses. Because come to think of it, You can't really lose what you never had. But you can always work towards having your dreams become a reality.
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
24 Apr 07
Most definitely and thats what I am trying to do.Thankyou for coming by!Have a good one!
@crackhead (1826)
• India
25 Apr 07
Well complaining of some thing that we don't have or possess sounds to me childish. No matter what ever some one might feel of, i used to complain about girl friends recently saying that what kind of thing is this dude why do you talk to your girl friends all the time on phones. Are girl friends that important to you? thats what i used to ask all the time. but now i am having a good couple of girls whom i talk to for long hours on phone. I don't stop complaining since only after complaining many things are coming my way.
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
25 Apr 07
Theres nothing talking to someone to the girls whom you like.Especially if thats what makes you happy.You suppose to do things that make you and bring a smile.
@jeanbug23 (992)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
As the saying goes, Count Your Blessings. This is what I'm doing and I always thank the Lord for what I have now. There is no satisfaction in this world. People always ask for something, I am like this before, but now I realize it is good to be thankful for what I have right now.
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
27 Apr 07
Same here.I have learned alot over the years and I really do count my blessings.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
23 Apr 07
For everything I have,I thank my God for having made it possible for me to have them, but those I dont have seriously wish to have, I also pray to my God to make me have them. I dont complain though, I only pray and work hard to get them.
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
23 Apr 07
Yes me to!!!Thankyou.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
23 Apr 07
I am grateful for what I have now I used to complain to but I know that I am very lucky to have what I have got and that I managed to hold on to it
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
23 Apr 07
I feel very lucky also!!!I want to recieve other things but I realize they will come eventually.Thanks Gabs!