how would you feel about this?
@easymoney75503 (1702)
United States
April 22, 2007 10:45am CST
ok say you are married and you know your partner had relationships before you that were great. that they thought they would be together for ever. then sosmething happened and not to your partners fault really that they spilt up and never got back together. then years later you meet and you end up together married with kids etc. well when they sleep they dream about there ex and say there name out loud in there sleep. in your heart you know they stil love them but that it will never be for them cause the other person doesnt want it. or that life has just went on and they have moved on and they dont come back for whatever reason. how would you feel your partner saying that persons name? dreaming about them? would you think that they just settle for you since they coldtn have the other one? would you feel hurt? would you feel like they wished they were with them and not you? would you feel they loved you less then they did the other person? or would you think it was just a dream?
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@terilee79720 (3621)
• United States
22 Apr 07
I would of course wonder. But,I realize that dreams are usually a reflection of what's going on in their real life. Most likely, even though someone else's face is in the dream, it's what the dream respresents symbolically. Don't hang on to it. Let it go. After all, he's with you now and most likely loves you a great deal.
@nampoothiripad (601)
• India
22 Apr 07
There is an old saying that all the first thing we will experience will be always with us some times it will be full of sweetness and sometimes it may be other wise. If we realize this, certainly we can adjust all these thins in our life. After all is it the word "adjustment" leading us in our life?
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@Suzika101 (69)
• United States
22 Apr 07
Do not take it personally when he dreams!!! I don't believe it has anything to do with you at all. When we dream I feel it is just neurons firing off. Those memories are in the "files" so to speak and out comes some creation of bits of our memories we have no control over. I don't think it means they are still in love with someones else at all!! Don't you ever dream about other men? Does that mean you love your husband less??? Heck, we dream about men we don't even know sometimes, like movie stars. Does that mean we are in love with them.
Relax, when he is awake who does he love?
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