Some PEOPLE only seeing your NEGATIVE sides instead of your POSITIVE sides??

yes you are right.. even if you do very good job you will get appreciation for sometime and if you do just a small mistake and things goes bad then every good thing done in past will not hav any value..

i remember my father told me about the question u have....."it is because u r SUPPOSED to do good that's y f u do bad people will notice u"....."don't mind f people remember u becoz of d bad thing u did becoz that's wer u learn on how to do good" ;-)

I don't want to say this, but its like its in our vein since our birth. But we can learn and trow that character away but its easy to say than do because our culture tells us so. Many people current way of thinking is just like that and our society seems like approving it. But we can change it gradually by starting on ourselves first. You said People only seeing your negative sides instead of your positive sides, do you really think they are really doing that at yours specifically? How about treat it as a positive criticism, you can interpret it that they let you know your weaknesses to make you aware of it and change it for good. If you will do that then you won't be hurt when someone is telling about your negative side.

Hello jl228. I think it depends on the person because some people just love to complain and do not care about the positive sides. For example, one of my friends loves to complain, never says anything positive. I think many people are like that. You have to overlook the person because I think he/she is thinking negatively, we're human we do stuff wrong all the time. We aren't perfect in the sense that we cannot do everything right all the time. I think it is good to forgive your friend even if he/she is mad about what you did. You can say "I'm sorry" and move on. Have a nice day. Pablo